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doiiiieeezie

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  1. Day 1 for me. Losing your best friend is one of the hardest things that can happen, especially when they know your secrets and inner core. Time in all ways is a healer and I know that in different circumstances this would be the person i could have grown old with, through romance or friendship. However, he belongs to another whether he wants to believe or not, and I can't sit by knowing that he's lying to both of us. I'm not doing this for anyone else but me, because I deserve so much better.
  2. So two days ago you contacted me and pretty much the same thing happened once again, but the intent to hurt me did not come the way you wanted it to. Is it because that I pointed out the truth and your ego stung? You were very much ready to show off the gf you claim to be with yet the signs show otherwise. Regardless, it really is a shame that I am done because I did see your name being dragged around in the mud today by someone that you call your friend. Will I ignore what I promised myself just to show you reality? No, I will walk on. Life is too short to be surrounded by drama and negativity , and I honestly don't want to repeat the same old again and again. I wish you all the love in the world.
  3. Goodnight, I hope you are sleeping well. Give toby some kisses for me.
  4. One of the veterans here... your old posts were great. Congrats on getting back together with the girl!
  5. We just had a deep conversation, and I am confuzzled. Yes, I stepped back and went into logical mode, but now the emotions are hitting. I really just don't know what to say.
  6. So after a long weekend of frustration and conversation, you and I seemed to be getting on the right path again, or so I thought. We did keep things open, and you mentioned that you want to live. I'm setting you free, that's what people who love each other do when they seek another path. However, let's not fool ourselves, are you really looking for something different? Do you really think that spending time with me and texting me all night then changing around a certain profile of yours to reflect what you are looking for would go over well? Your description is me. You are looking for me, but alas you will not reach out for me. The funny thing is that I know you are playing me in some aspect, and I'm only feeding you to keep this going. However, life is about to take a drastic change in my neck of the woods, and when it does things will be different. I am growing stronger, I will stand taller and I know that who I am as a person will improve through time and reflection. I'm not doing this for you, it's simply about me now. You may realize that I am the person, you may not. However, if you do come back later, I may not be there. The door will be closed. As much as I love and care for you, this game needs to end. I'm no longer your pawn.
  7. LOL of course... drama sells. On the other side (real life).. i was talking to one of my best friends who is in the process of reconciling with her first love. They have gotten together and broken up so many times that I have lost track. This time, it seems real. They have been in NC/LC for 2 years now.
  8. I forgot to tell this story in the midst of my own drama... A friend of mine and her husband dated on and off for years, where she would be unsure of if he was the one. Then she moved states away from him, and ceased contact. She dated others while he still pined for her in their hometown. She moved back home after not feeling it and they got back together shortly after. They've been married for 5 years now.
  9. Never listen to the numbers, because they speak in infinite, not in emotion. Every relationship dynamic is different, and you have to look at your own situation at hand. If it is over, then it is over... but people break up and reconcile all teh time. If you stick to one plan only that is not designed for you, then it will fail.
  10. You keep doing this to me! This time, I need to accept the reality. You claim to be my friend, offer nothing in terms of promises and then when I ask if the door is closed, you balk at me. When I tell you I need space, you don't understand why. I know it's over, and I feel like it is finally this time, but I just want to know this, why do you want to stay in touch with me?
  11. A million little pieces by James Frey. Conjured up or not, it is a great read so far.
  12. Hey ex that brought me to ENA How are you? I saw you pop on MSN last night and actually felt nothing about it. However, it got me to thinking... how is everything? How are your parents? Are you happy and still with the gf that you made sure I knew about in November? Despite the mess you tried to put me through then, I do wish you well. I was quite surprised that you didn't block me from Msn, and while I will not be contacting you, I am glad to see that you are still around. It's funny, but seeing you pop online really made me realize that I have moved on, I am in love with someone else and while it is rocky between him and I, I know that there is a difference between him and you. He shows and proves that he does have my best intentions at heart and he is someone that I can actually trust and respect in the good and bad times. You ran as fast as you could and really I don't need people like you in my life. Regardless, I wish you nothing but the best.
  13. I sit here stumped by your actions. Sure, I wasn't the best attentive person towards you at times and it's understandable that you got sick of asking me to open up more. I have apologized, accepted my responsibility and put my feelings out there. It is a huge slap in the face knowing that you asked someone else out the next day and acted like a jerk for a week. It's another when you come back because she was not what you wanted, because you apparently still love me. I can tell you something, that's not love. The fact that your wingman tells me that one day that we will end up being friends again sickens me. You need to shush up, and leave me alone if you are no longer interested. You shouldn't be saying stupid things like that you believe in quick healing process so you can move on. Yesterday you desired to have a relationship with me, but at the same time you just want to make sure that I am alright. Well, if you do not make up your mind and stop with the immaturity, I will make the decision easily to cease contact with you. I get that we weren't dating and what you did was not cheating. But there's a reason why I no longer call or text you and you shouldn't expect anything from me. I was non attentive, but you messed up big time too. The more you speak, the less I feel bad about thinking that you were just in it for sex.. because actions really do speak louder than words.
  14. That would go against the generalization that once women are done in a relationship, they are done... and we can't have that here... nooo. For those who seek reconciliation, have hope... it does happen. But step back and let it happen. For pushing others to do things that they may not want at first never ends well.
  15. I'm bumping this just to show some positivity in a negative atmosphere.
  16. As stated before, people do get together again but it doesn't mean that they post the good news... in fact many people flee the board once the initial feelings of heartbreak/pain are gone. Rather looking at the numbers it's best to look at the couple in question and their situation. No one knows what will happen or why and often that is lost in the mix. Also remember that 82% of all stats are made up on the spot. I stand by that.
  17. There is a lot of negativity here, and it's good to get away from this board for a while. However, this thread has always given me hope, not based on a fantasy but the common thread that it takes time, patience, friendship and unconditional love to succeed in anything. As Conan O'Brien said on his last Tonight Show : " Nobody in life gets exactly what they thought they were going to get, but if you work really hard and you're kind, amazing things will happen." Anyway, back to the topic 1- A friend of mine was cheated on by his best friend/gf. They knew each other for years, but only dated for a month or so. He pretty much lost it and closed the door hard on her. She went crazy too. But about a yr later, they got back together. How did they reconnect? Well she kept around when she could, moved on and he realized that he was crazy about her. He was with someone else but whenever the chips were down, he needed his now gf, and she'd run to his side every time. Patience on her side made things work out, and while they have their issues, they are stronger than ever. 2- My sister and her husband dated for 8 months, he proposed, and then he got cold feet. He kept breaking up with her, and she'd go no contact with him. Finally, she had enough and was ready to move on. He recognized his problems and got counseling. Anyway, they got back together and have happy ever since.
  18. well put. I stopped counting... something that brownstone said a month or two ago about doing more productive things than counting the days struck a cord in me. It's been about a month since I sent him an email. As I see it, he and i didn't talk for a year once and still got together so anything can happen. Chin up buttercups
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