Quick question (Guys' and Girls' opinions appreciated)

[dude21489]

I didn't know whether to put this in the "Dating" forum or the "Relationship" forum so I just chose "Dating." But anyways...

 

My girlfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year (about a year and a month) and we're both 15 (soon to be 16). Anyways, our Homecoming Dance is coming up and we started talking about it last night and she kinda got upset that I hadn't asked her yet. The thing is, I don't like doing things like that over the phone and I hadn't realized Homecoming was only two weeks away and I've had A LOT on my mind lately so I kinda forgot about it.

 

So here's my question and I'd really appreciate any of your opinions on this matter.

 

If you and your significant other have been together for a while (and if you were/are still in high school) do you neccisarily have to ask/invite them to a dance or is it kind of implied that you want to go with him/her? Sorry if that doesn't make any sense and Thank You in advance.

[behind_these_eyes]

I'd say it's implied, but you should maybe mention it or something so she knows you haven't forgot and that you're planning on going. I dont think it's necessary to ask her to if you've been going out.

[ShroudedSorrow24]

I'd say it's implied. I think it would be kind of ridiculous to ask her since you're already goin out with her. Maybe just call her and say "What time do you want me to pick you up?"

[oh yeah]

i think its nicer when u ask.. the girl will feel more special and loved.. but i should b understood i fu r together, that when u go somewhr u r a couple especially at soemthing like a dance

[Scout]

Yeah, I think you could have mentioned something like, "So, I'm looking forward to having the prettiest date at the homecoming dance! You do want to go, right?"

[dude21489]

Thanks for letting me know your opinions everyone. I was leaning towards the idea that it's implied but thats just me (and ShroudedSorrow24 and behind_these_eyes). I think I'm gonna ask her Friday.... Well, thank you again everyone. I'm off now since I gotta finish some homework. Chao!