raton44 Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 Well...I will post one of my threads below about "dating my ex" so people can read up about this guy and our relationship. In short, BU end of Aug 2011. We hung out twice in the beg, of Oct. and about 2 weeks ago I told him I didn't want to hang out anymore bc I wasn't down with this FWB thing going on. He said, "Ok, I had said it probably wasn't the best idea for us to hang out right now." So, this morning about 9 am he txted me asking if I had any plans ths weekend. I have my kids this wknd, so I said "can't this wknd, but maybe next wknd or next Wednesday." He said "ok." I need some advice on what should happen if we do get together. This guy is one with abandonment issues from his parents death at a young age and has a history of getting scared of commitment, yet scared to be abandoned. A classic "distancer," if anyone has read Make Up Don't Break Up. Thanks! I know that if we work on getting back together there is going to have to be some change and willingness on his part for it to ever work. I have gotten to the point that I am no longer an emotional bag of sadness, so I'm feeling pretty cool and calm about this. I know that I won't be making any rash decisions based upon emotion at this point (thank God! lol). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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