madyy Posted November 1, 2011 Share Posted November 1, 2011 I have got engaged to a girl 4 months back but ever since i did that i have ended up asking Qs to myself ...was it correct thing to do. Since its an arranged marriage set up (India)..i just met the girl twice felt good the way she spoke and behaved and because of this said yes to her but then when i sat back and thought ,i felt she is less beautiful than what i wanted my partner to look like. i always keep thinking ,didnt i deserved to be with more beautiful girl but still she is nice in her nature and talks with me. we are in long distance realtion so we have not met again and will meet directly in marriage after few months. we only spk on phone. Now i do not have answer here ,will it be wrong to leave such a girl who is nice to me etc .Also i am not sure abt future Will i meet a beatiful girl with good nature , i am not sure. one more thing,my parents though were happy initially at engagement suddenly have realised ,the family is not great in terms of living standards of both family.They are ok with the girl but definitely say its a big compromise we have said yes to such a family. Now they also feel ,it wud be wrong to say NO because girl will get hurted because its not her fault. Also i feel since i am 34 so chances of my meeting a nice looking girl are not easy. How long will i search ... Any suggestions will be appreciable,should i proceed ahead in this marriage or stop the relation and search for a new partner. Link to comment
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