22n32 Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 So we hang out.. it was a snow storm here. So she invited me over. Convo felt strained she fought I didn't like her.. when I left she said ttyt.. I called today. Set up to hang out for few hrs.. I called back twice she won't respond.. I'm confused ;( Link to comment
laura40 Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 Hi, I don't know if you've posted any other threads about this so don't know the background. So let me get this right, you called her 3 times in the day and she hasn't responded? From what you said about the time you met, with the conversation being strained and whatnot, I don't think she's that interested. Link to comment
22n32 Posted October 30, 2011 Author Share Posted October 30, 2011 Talk to her at 1pm today told me to call her at 5 to set up for later. I called 3 times and nothing.. Why would she tell me to call her then. She is 31 said hates games worse then my 23 old ex Don't get it... Link to comment
laura40 Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 Words are cheap. Actions speaker louder than words. Just because she says she hates games, doesn't mean that she is actually telling the truth. Don't call again, let her come to you. Link to comment
22n32 Posted October 30, 2011 Author Share Posted October 30, 2011 I know. I've called to much already I think. I prob look pyscho for calling 3 times. Hate dating.. Link to comment
laura40 Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 I doubt you look pyscho. Don't worry about it. Link to comment
diamond78 Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 Are you in NY, 22n32? And do you know her cellphone provider? I only ask because my guy has been having a ton of phone issues since the storm. He tried calling and texting me several times and I didn't get the majority of his attempts. And he didn't receive several of my texts either, so I'm hoping it's something like that and not her ignoring you which is just plain rude. Link to comment
22n32 Posted October 30, 2011 Author Share Posted October 30, 2011 We are in ny. But 3 calls and 3 texts. And nothing she must of got one of them. I talked to her at 1pm.. she is ignoring me. So rude Link to comment
sadchick83 Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 Not sure what to say, did you just go over to her home? That's a bit of a hard first date. Going out would be better. Ok here is my take: With me, if I meet a guy, I like to go home and "digest" him. When I first met the guy who introduced himself while jogging last week, I liked him, but now I really like him. Also, I completely switched off all phones this past Friday night after a trying week at work. BTW, subject guy lives in NYC, and for some reason I just got the email he sent me yesterday, again, but still shows as coming in yesterday?? There are phone issues in NY. I would just let her come to you. You never know what could be going on... By the way, some women will cool off a bit to get the guy going....I agree with the poster and will add: "No one LIKES to play games, but we all DO." Link to comment
diamond78 Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 We are in ny. But 3 calls and 3 texts. And nothing she must of got one of them. I talked to her at 1pm.. she is ignoring me. So rude Hmmm, does she have verizon? Because my guy does and between 1:30 and 5:00pm he didn't receive more than 3 of my texts and he called me way more than 3 times and sent several texts I never received until he finally got through to me a few hours later. He knew the network was acting up but he kept trying only because he knew someone had hit my car and he was checking to make sure everything was okay. I dunno though, I'm just hoping to find a explanation here for ya.... But if she is indeed ignoring you, then yep...that's incredibly rude and I would forget about her. Link to comment
CMS Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 Dude back off man, 3 call and 3 text? she prob thinks you are needy now, take a step back and play cool Link to comment
22n32 Posted October 31, 2011 Author Share Posted October 31, 2011 Talk to her today. She said she didn't get any of my calls.. I don't know... Link to comment
22n32 Posted October 31, 2011 Author Share Posted October 31, 2011 Talk to her today. She said she didn't get any of my calls.. I don't know... Link to comment
CMS Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 and you are buying that? wake up dude Link to comment
22n32 Posted October 31, 2011 Author Share Posted October 31, 2011 I'm 50/50 on it... But why shouldn't I buy it??? I know a friend on mine got my text 7 hrs later... Link to comment
igo Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 Just act like she never got them...it's what she said after all. You will know if she is into you or not soon enough. Play it cool. Link to comment
diamond78 Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 Talk to her today. She said she didn't get any of my calls.. I don't know... Well, considering the circumstances I'd believe her this one time. The same exact thing happened to me too yesterday with repeated phone calls and texts not going through at all. Just observe how receptive she is moving forward. Link to comment
Huntress0527 Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 Sounds like you need to relax a little bit. Again you are putting this chick so high up you are making yourself crazy. You're only going to push her away thinking you are needy so ease up a bit. Link to comment
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