gluestick Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 Do guys talk to their girl pals about sex if they're already in a committed long-term relationship to get a girl's perspective? Link to comment
WindowTo Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 Oh heck yea. There are some questions you don't want to ask your gf because you don't want to seem unkowledgable or you just want to get a greater number of perspectives. Link to comment
oldenoughtoknow Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 I never have. In general, none of the guys I know talk about sex much if they're in a relationship. About as deep as it goes is to say good, okay or not enough. No details. When younger and maybe an ONS came along, then yeah, you might talk about details with the guys, but still not the girls. I have talked to girl pals asking about what women are thinking. I've actually done that quite a few times. Link to comment
PaintWithLight Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 No. I really do not think they are really that stumped for information. Lots of other sources are available. I would suggest caution. Some guys use the cloak of friendship to pierce the boundary and begin planting the seeds for sexual connection. If fact, if the conversation is something you would feel strange about his partner overhearing than I suggest stopping the Q & A. It is funny how innocent sex questions can proceed until one day.... we ended up in bed together... it just happened. It is a slippery slope that you should avoid. Would you want your BF asking sex questions to his gal pals? Some gal pals are attractive women that the guy has not got around to cultivating romantically. He keeps them close as "friends" but there actual interest there. Be careful! Link to comment
Mesemene Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 I always had more guy friends than girl friends. Comes from being a bit of a science geek and tomboy And when I was younger, it was pretty common for my male friends to ask for a girl's input for GF stuff, everything from sex, to ideas for picnics or romance and gifts, you name it. So probably depends on the guy, and if he's got a truly platonic friend of the opposite gender he feels comfortable talking about it with as well. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 I would say that they do, I certainly do with my friends, in order to get their take on a situation. Link to comment
UniqueSoul Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 i definitely ask my guy friends advice about my relationship all the time. i think its totally acceptable Link to comment
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