Louboutin Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 Okay so... I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. We love each other so much and I can't picture being with anyone else in my life. So, here's the catch. He's married, but they have been separated for a few years. Neither of them wanted to take the first step and file or divorce I guess. But recently, she (his ex) which he has a kid with, wants to get back together with him. His mother has been pressuring him to get back with her also, for the kid's sake. They broke up because they were fighting alot, she did some things with his money that he works hard for that really upset him, and they just fell out of love. To me I don't think that kind of environment is good for a kid to be around but whatever. So, anyways even though I obviously STRONGLY disagree, he agreed to go to counseling meetings with her. He tells me he doesn't want to get back with her, he just wants to have closure and to be able to tell his kid that he didnt just give up.. He knows how much this hurts me and now he tells me he's torn. In the back of my mind I always saw this happening I can't deal with losing him he means SO much to me. He's always trying to please everyone else. Never puts his own self first. I just want him to be happy. To stop thinking about what everyone else wants. What his mom wants, hat his ex wants, what I want. Just find out what he wants. I'm not really asking for much help on this, but if there's anything any of you can think of that I can say to him that will help him make a decision. I don't want to push him towards me or towards her. I truly just want him to be happy with whatever he decides. But I want him to hurry. I can't take much more of this. Please this is serious so serious answers please and thank you for taking time out of your day to read my problem Link to comment
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