look2thestars Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 I can't believe i'm 27 years old and still don't know the answer to this question haha. Basically, I always think that if i'm out somewhere (bar, club, party, whatever it may be) if a guy is interested in me, they will come to me. If they dont, i assume they arent' interested. Yet, I am smart enough to realize that the guy may be thinking the very same thing "if she is interested, she'll come to me". Lets face it...i dont believe that anyone likes getting rejected. Which is the main reason I feel uncomfortable approaching a guy. My friend (who is very religious, not sure if that has something to do with it) says that the man should be the one to approach the woman. when i asked her "well, what if he is thinking the same thing i am, that im not interested" she said "well then it just isnt meant to be with that person". Idk though. I have very little confidence, and i like the man to approach me cuz obviously there is no doubt that he is interested in in me then. So what do you all think? Guys, girls...who should make the move? What would you do if you did make the move, and got rejected? How do you "save face"? Link to comment
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