my gf's sister thread again!

[InkkedBree]

Just because she does whatever does not mean you can have the mentality of "Oh, well, it's there. She started it." That's elementary mentality: She started it! You're the one that continued it, and you're the one that asked her to crack your back while she's in her panties. How is that her fault? Because she's already there and you needed your back cracked? No, you saw opportunity. Me, if my boyfriend's sister/brother did that, stood there all "sexy" in the nude in my line of vision, what I would do is to simply get up, close the door, and sit down. Block the line of vision. I'd clearly be blunt and say I don't feel comfortable seeing the person wearing next to nothing to me. You, you haven't set any boundaries. You're assigning blame on the sister when it takes two to tango. You are not the victim in this.

 

Honestly, I won't be suprised if later on, the opportunity came, and she "seduced" you in have sex. Two to tango.

[metrogirl]

You didn't need to lay down next to her to talk to her. That's kinda freakish if you ask me. Personally I think both of you are acting shameful.

[OptomisticGirl]

The fact you have done none of what inkedbee said says it all: you don't want to set boundaries and you want to cheat on your girlfriend.

[pl3asehelp]

your doing a good thing by not hitting on her sister. keep away from her sister. imagine it this way how would you feel if your gf liked your brother and was attracted to him?

 

How was him asking her to come 'crack his back' not hitting on her? And asking her if she's going to bed yet (another way to say 'i want you to stay up with me').

[Oneironaut]

If you're truly wanting to stay faithful to your girlfriend, you won't do ANYTHING that engages in physical contact with her sister, such as back cracking. PERIOD.

 

You sure as hell won't lie down next to her in bed, even to have an "innocent" conversation. PERIOD.

 

No, it's not OK to change in front of your sister's boyfriend, but the only behavior you can control is YOURS, and you aren't even really trying (see my previous two sentences.)

 

Please dump your girlfriend before you "lose control of yourself" and cheat on her with her own sister. She doesn't deserve that.

[4dogs]

Man, some people are so harsh on this board!

 

I think that it is neither right or wrong; you can't help your feelings for another person and sometimes they just take you places you never thought you would be. However, I also think you should break up with your girlfriend and do so right now. If you are feeling this way, it needs to be over. But no I don't think there is anything so wrong about this; strange things happen.

 

For the record, I too think this is a troll

[Superus]

All advice taken. You guys are right, i was tempted at what i saw and came up with somethings to make her hang with me. She went along with it, she stood up until 3Am talking to me and wouldn't stop talking. maybe she does like me but i'm going to try hard not to do anything. i know that's not what any of you want to hear but my current gf is not cutting it anymore. IDK what i'm going to do it would be best if i never see her again and just pay attention to my current gf

 

 

I know it's hard to believe my story but i never thought this situation will ever happen to me,

[ferna3069]

well instead of not trying to do anything dont try just dont do it. . if your current gf isnt cutting it any more its best to let her go. or trust me your going to hurt her. find some one else. some one who isnt family

[metrogirl]

Man, some people are so harsh on this board!

 

I think that it is neither right or wrong; you can't help your feelings for another person and sometimes they just take you places you never thought you would be. However, I also think you should break up with your girlfriend and do so right now. If you are feeling this way, it needs to be over. But no I don't think there is anything so wrong about this; strange things happen.

 

For the record, I too think this is a troll

 

Then who cares how harsh we are?

[NightLily]

Wow so you discussed your girlfriend's sex life to her sister? Made her out to be a bad girlfriend? You are so far from boyfriend material it isn't even funny...