hippychick11 Posted April 29, 2011 Share Posted April 29, 2011 Hi everyone, well I'm leaving for another country in less than 3 days, I haven't thought about it that much because I've been violently ill with the flu Hopefully Im 100% for my vaca though. I will be meeting my online bf for the first time ever! we set a date which was good and then he says, it will just be casual and i won't keep you for long, he kept stressing this and it's sooo fustrating! i know he keeps warning me about his appearance allll the time but ive seen him on webcam and photos and hes perfect to me, i couldnt find anything about him not attractive. I mean i'm coming alll this way for this guy basically, im going to be exploring the world and that in it's own right is extremely exciting but ultimately im following my heart, i love him. So i'm just going to get there and try to woo him over lol and see if that works..i just hope he welcomes me and isnt stand offish. I feel like i know him so well, we're amazing together online so i dont know why he cant see that in a real life context as well. Link to comment
civilservant Posted April 29, 2011 Share Posted April 29, 2011 i know what you're going through, i flew to the US to meet my now finacee, and he flew from to New York to meet me. You will ne nervous, and it might be akward for a little while, but just try to blow past it. Have fun, and be safe! Link to comment
MissSMcc Posted April 29, 2011 Share Posted April 29, 2011 this is the coffee date isnt it? i hope it all goes well for you, its a long way to go for a guy that doesnt seem too eager, but you never know, he may just be nervous. anyway, do you have some other activities planned for your trip? so you will at least have fun even if the meet doesnt work out as you hope. good luck. Link to comment
Huntress0527 Posted April 29, 2011 Share Posted April 29, 2011 I definitely know the feeling!!! I had only seen photos when I met my now fiance so you can imagine how nervous/excited/scared I was! When I did see him I thought there is my future husband and here we are almost 2 years later of living together getting married later this year. I don't think it's that he's not eager he's just afraid of rejection. That you'll go there and be disappointed. Just be yourself and if it works out then awesome! Good luck! Link to comment
freiabereinsam Posted May 6, 2011 Share Posted May 6, 2011 I am also curious to hear how the trip/visit went. Link to comment
KH26 Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 I want to know how your trip went too? Link to comment
mines Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 I'm dying to know how your trip went too! Link to comment
hippychick11 Posted May 20, 2011 Author Share Posted May 20, 2011 Hi everyone, my trip has been absolutely amazing! I am still currently overseas and coming home next week but everything with my boyfriend was perfect, I've had the best time of my life with him and so glad that we met. We became really attatched to eachother after spending every day and night together for 2 weeks, it was incredible the chemistry we had. I guess now the hard part is actually maintaining our relationship but we've both said that we really want to and we might even be able to have a real future together. I am really grateful for this website because I did have my doubts about meeting him but everyone on this forum has been really supportive and nice so thanks Link to comment
Huntress0527 Posted May 20, 2011 Share Posted May 20, 2011 Hi everyone, my trip has been absolutely amazing! I am still currently overseas and coming home next week but everything with my boyfriend was perfect, I've had the best time of my life with him and so glad that we met. We became really attatched to eachother after spending every day and night together for 2 weeks, it was incredible the chemistry we had. I guess now the hard part is actually maintaining our relationship but we've both said that we really want to and we might even be able to have a real future together. I am really grateful for this website because I did have my doubts about meeting him but everyone on this forum has been really supportive and nice so thanks That is awesome to hear! I'm happy that it went well for you!! When I met my fiance I was pretty nervous and wondered if I was crazy but then I saw him and all these feelings came flooding in and I just knew. The rest is now history. Link to comment
ibu Posted May 20, 2011 Share Posted May 20, 2011 Hi everyone, my trip has been absolutely amazing! I am still currently overseas and coming home next week but everything with my boyfriend was perfect, I've had the best time of my life with him and so glad that we met. We became really attatched to eachother after spending every day and night together for 2 weeks, it was incredible the chemistry we had. I guess now the hard part is actually maintaining our relationship but we've both said that we really want to and we might even be able to have a real future together. I am really grateful for this website because I did have my doubts about meeting him but everyone on this forum has been really supportive and nice so thanks So I guess you made it past the coffee date? Link to comment
hippychick11 Posted May 23, 2011 Author Share Posted May 23, 2011 So I guess you made it past the coffee date? haha yeah it was much more than a coffee date! we did everything together and had so much fun, i'll never forget it and i am so glad i got the chance. Link to comment
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