dyna Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Ok been chatting to this girl for almost a month now through txts and phone calls, we finally met up last saturday and i ended up going back to hers, after a bit of flirting and kissing we ended up having sex, i really like her and i hope she likes me as much but im wondering if we took the final step too early.I didnt want to jepardise a possible relationship by moving so fast. Am i over-analizing too much? or is this how it goes these days, ive not dated for a very long time lol Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Ok been chatting to this girl for almost a month now through txts and phone calls, we finally met up last saturday and i ended up going back to hers, after a bit of flirting and kissing we ended up having sex, i really like her and i hope she likes me as much but im wondering if we took the final step too early.I didnt want to jepardise a possible relationship by moving so fast. Am i over-analizing too much? or is this how it goes these days, ive not dated for a very long time lol How about you call her and ask her out again and take it from there. Link to comment
NANsense Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 I agree! If you like her then roll on... Why are you asking is this is how it goes these days? After all YOU slept with her--so there's your answer!....not trying to be a trouble maker--but, as a woman, my radar goes up when men go for what they want, when they want it (seem like the way of the times) and then wonder why a woman does the same.....always a double standard... Link to comment
Bluebelle1976 Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Have you not been in touch since Saturday? I think to much emphasis is placed on when a couple should have sex. As you both consented and decided to take the next step thats all that matters. Link to comment
alwaysmoving Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Call her up and plan your second date. Link to comment
dyna Posted April 11, 2011 Author Share Posted April 11, 2011 I agree! If you like her then roll on... Why are you asking is this is how it goes these days? After all YOU slept with her--so there's your answer!....not trying to be a trouble maker--but, as a woman, my radar goes up when men go for what they want, when they want it (seem like the way of the times) and then wonder why a woman does the same.....always a double standard... im asking because before that id only been with 1 person for 9/10 years alot can change in that time lol im not second guessing her i just dont want mess it up lol and yep we've been in contact since guess i just need to relax and enjoy it lol thanks all Link to comment
dyna Posted April 12, 2011 Author Share Posted April 12, 2011 ok so i asked her out again this friday and she said 'xxx we'll see xxx' im hopeful as it wasnt a no lol but then again it could turn into 1 lol i dno Link to comment
dyna Posted April 12, 2011 Author Share Posted April 12, 2011 haha i will after fridays here Link to comment
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