velvette Posted April 5, 2011 Share Posted April 5, 2011 oh yeah... my friend's creepy ex that liked her sister... he had dreams about her little sister. sexual dreams. this weirded out my friend. (she broke up with him for other reasons, but that was pretty bad in itself) don't let it get to that point. if her little sister isn't mature enough to behave, then you need to actively squelch this behavior. leave the room, don't look, act embarrassed, or tell her to put on her pants. show disapproval. Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted April 7, 2011 Share Posted April 7, 2011 You could always bring up the possibility of a 3-some if you have an open minded gf... Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted April 7, 2011 Share Posted April 7, 2011 Then don't go drinking with the sister. It's as simple as that. The key word here is AVOID. Yeah, I agree with this. Mostly because...oh I don't know, drinking with an 18 year old is ILLEGAL. Link to comment
Oneironaut Posted April 7, 2011 Share Posted April 7, 2011 i'm starting to have a huge crush on her and i don't like it. i love my gf but damn her sister is sexy. If you don't like it, then stop. Frankly, this entire thing sounds like a teenage boy's fantasy. I mean, come on....you're "scared" that if you go drinking, you'll make a move on her, and you love your girlfriend? Either you have no discernible willpower, or you don't really love your girlfriend. There aren't any other viable choices here. Link to comment
DigitalSpy Posted April 7, 2011 Share Posted April 7, 2011 If you don't like it, then stop. Frankly, this entire thing sounds like a teenage boy's fantasy. I mean, come on....you're "scared" that if you go drinking, you'll make a move on her, and you love your girlfriend? Either you have no discernible willpower, or you don't really love your girlfriend. There aren't any other viable choices here. I can understand that maybe her sister really is using her body to see what you do. I can believe this, because like I have already posted THIS HAPPENED TO ME! But, this whole concern you might make a move on her if you went drinking...it all sounds a bit daft now so I agree with Oneironaut. You obviously dont love you GF enough to control yourself. When it happened to me, every time she did something I told my GF and eventually the two sisters fell out for a few days. Her sister stopped being creepy and they made up. And from that moment on it was normal life again. I loved my GF so would have never persued her sister in anyway! So why should you? Link to comment
cavalier Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 Yeah, I agree with this. Mostly because...oh I don't know, drinking with an 18 year old is ILLEGAL. No it's not... In most countries, 18 is the legal drinking age... Not everyone lives in the USA. Link to comment
NightLily Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 Your post kind of skeeves me out to be honest. I think you almost want something to happen. Is it possible she just doesn't even think of you as somebody to be attracted to so she doesn't care what you see? Link to comment
robertdawson Posted July 30, 2011 Share Posted July 30, 2011 Not normal. Either she wants you to give it to her or she is a major attention * * * * * who is totally shameless. To be honest, it doesn't sound like you're trying very hard to avoid the situation. You try to talk to her, send her text messages, stand by and not say anything, enthusiastically say goodbye when she leaves and so on. If you didn't want her to act like that you would tell your girlfriend "tell your sister to quit changing in front of me". If she did it when she wasn't around then tell her to put some clothes on. If you really want it to stop, when she starts doing that tell her to put some clothes on, but give her a reason like "you're not attractive, please stop" or "have you tried dieting?" although those comments would probably make her problems even worse. If you don't give a * * * * about your girlfriend break up with her and then go for her sister, unless she is way younger than you. Be aware though that your girlfriend *may* go absolutely INSANE on you. Link to comment
Marvin Cruz Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 go for the sexy one! loljk Stick to one and have fun with another I guess.. Link to comment
greta96 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 Why is this even an issue? It doesn't matter why an 18 years old kid does the stupid things she does, you are the mature one there, in a relationship with her sister, it's strictly up to you to put an end to this disgusting situation! Tell your girlfriend that her sister's actions are making you highly uncomfortable and that she needs to talk to her about boundaries. You do sound as if you enjoy this, and that's gross. Really? You are afraid of what will happen if you get drunk with the sister? You'll ruin a seemingly good relationship, you'll cause great distress to a family, and you'll be viewed as a pig, this is what will happen. It's not rocket science. Make the kid see how stupid she's being by doing that and she'll stop doing it because she'll feel rejected, as opposed to you ogling her, which is only encouraging her. Boundaries man. You need to set them, and the teenager needs to get some. Link to comment
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