my bf is dissatisfied with my breast size

[lilsht05]

OK...so he might like big breasts on a woman, but that is NO reason for him to do what he did. If he really loves you and really cares about you he would be satisfied with what you have. I am a c-cup as well and I have never had anyone tell me that they are too small. I think that you should tell him that you like them the way they are and that is all that matters to you, if you like yourself, then he will like you for who you are. Be more self confident!! That is just my opinion though!

[OverParanoid]

First of all the size of your breast should be the last thing he shoul dbe worryng about. You as a person supposed to be his point of intrest. Your inner beauty is what should have attracted him to you not your breast. If he wants bigger breast maybe he should think about getting implants for himself...lol As far as for you god made each and everyone one of us different, your beautiful just they way you are, dont change your looks

because a guy tells you to, as long as your happy with yourself that makes u even more beautiful..good luck!

[sbmed]

In reply to the original post...

 

As a male, and with discussing this many male friends and acquaintances, 20 by my count, most (about 12 - 13) of whom I would describe as very successfull with the opposite sex (i.e.players), we all concured on the following:

 

1) Breast size is of little importance. More important, physically, is knowing their girlfriend is happy with them sexually. This is really a turn on for most men. Obviously you should find your partner physically attracvtive already - its just that people find different size/shapes attractive. Which brings me to...

 

2) some of my friends (who are from all backgrounds) (and me included) PREFER women with small breasts. They (and I) find it incredibly sexy. Most, about 10, preferred medium (Med ryanish to Ashely Judd); there were none who exclusively preferred big breasts. Most (about 17) said they were repulsed by overly large breasts (as in Pamela anderson - Ewww, no thanks). So there are a ton of guys out there who find smaller breasts more physically attractive than larger ones. Nothing against bigger breasted gals, though, you girls are fine just the way you are.

 

3) accross the board, unanimous, all guys i talked to said they prefer natural over fake. Personally, I can tell when girls have breast implants and to me it never looks good and frankly it kinda gnaws at you. Know what I mean? In the back of your mind you know it's fake. Same thing forbreast reduction. If you want to do anything to it for persnal comfort more that self-esteem or looks. Personally, I'd rather have a natural than a fake anything. Would you want a guy with a artificially enlarged penis? Natural is sexy. Allways.

 

4) C-cup isn't small. Frankly, ir average medium, etc. Perfectly fine.

 

So with these 4 points in mind let me say this... maybe you should dump your BF, and find the millions of guys like me who drool over small-to-medium size breasts and, frankly, get no rise out of "grapefruits" or "melons". my ex-gf had small "half-pear" shaped ones that utterly spoiled me for bigger ones.

 

So don't worry, you are perfect-sexy-desireable just the way you are, believe me. You just need to find the right guy.

[kenshinkitten]

C cup is like the perfect size. It might even be too big for some girls.

 

yeah dump your bf or tell him that this is who you are and you're not going to change for him, you feel good about yourself and what he is doing is making you feel bad.

 

Dump his sorry a$$ that guy should be lucky he's got a girlfriend that lets him look at porn or anything. What an idiot.

[dragon lady]

This post is ancient. I think the original poster has moved on.

[midnightrambler]

C cup is like the perfect size. It might even be too big for some girls.

 

yeah dump your bf or tell him that this is who you are and you're not going to change for him, you feel good about yourself and what he is doing is making you feel bad.

 

Dump his sorry a$$ that guy should be lucky he's got a girlfriend that lets him look at porn or anything. What an idiot.

 

i prefer a DD.... decent guy would buy them for his lady

[kenshinkitten]

i prefer a DD.... decent guy would buy them for his lady

 

A decent guy wouldn't start dating someone with a C cup then suddenly want her to change to a huge cup size.

[midnightrambler]

A decent guy wouldn't start dating someone with a C cup then suddenly want her to change to a huge cup size.

 

i can't argue with that.....