In reply to the original post...
As a male, and with discussing this many male friends and acquaintances, 20 by my count, most (about 12 - 13) of whom I would describe as very successfull with the opposite sex (i.e.players), we all concured on the following:
1) Breast size is of little importance. More important, physically, is knowing their girlfriend is happy with them sexually. This is really a turn on for most men. Obviously you should find your partner physically attracvtive already - its just that people find different size/shapes attractive. Which brings me to...
2) some of my friends (who are from all backgrounds) (and me included) PREFER women with small breasts. They (and I) find it incredibly sexy. Most, about 10, preferred medium (Med ryanish to Ashely Judd); there were none who exclusively preferred big breasts. Most (about 17) said they were repulsed by overly large breasts (as in Pamela anderson - Ewww, no thanks). So there are a ton of guys out there who find smaller breasts more physically attractive than larger ones. Nothing against bigger breasted gals, though, you girls are fine just the way you are.
3) accross the board, unanimous, all guys i talked to said they prefer natural over fake. Personally, I can tell when girls have breast implants and to me it never looks good and frankly it kinda gnaws at you. Know what I mean? In the back of your mind you know it's fake. Same thing forbreast reduction. If you want to do anything to it for persnal comfort more that self-esteem or looks. Personally, I'd rather have a natural than a fake anything. Would you want a guy with a artificially enlarged penis? Natural is sexy. Allways.
4) C-cup isn't small. Frankly, ir average medium, etc. Perfectly fine.
So with these 4 points in mind let me say this... maybe you should dump your BF, and find the millions of guys like me who drool over small-to-medium size breasts and, frankly, get no rise out of "grapefruits" or "melons". my ex-gf had small "half-pear" shaped ones that utterly spoiled me for bigger ones.
So don't worry, you are perfect-sexy-desireable just the way you are, believe me. You just need to find the right guy.
