5 Years Later an Apology...

[EQIQ]

Just mentioning something kinda weird and funny. I used to kinda date this girl back when I was 16/17 (first love kinda thing). Some of my friends told me she was going out with some other guy behind my back. I never really got to the bottom of the whole story, but it did seem like it happened at the time, so I stopped talking to her (long story, I was pretty crushed for many months). When I was 18, I tried to start up a relationship with her, and got rejected/burned. Ok, this is all kinda normal teenage stuff.

 

What is weird, is me 5 years later receiving an e-mail at 2 am from her apologizing for all she made me go through. ?? Seriously lol. I dunno, its kinda funny. Now she wants to be friends or something. I dunno people are weird.

 

And I guess I am too nice, because I asked her to explain what happened, that if she didn't I would rather not be friends. So she did (no idea if she lied or not, but I don't see why she would, unless she wants something else). And I accepted her apologies, kinda believe her, and am ok with being friends or whatever. I don't know, I just don't care to be honest.

 

Lol.. now she is adding me on facebook saying hi and stuff. Man, ex's are funny.

[Snowy]

When was the last time you two made contact before this?

 

LOL, I think she feels sorry for what she did and it was a lump inside her heart all those years.

[EQIQ]

Hmmmmm 2-3 years ago? I like her family a lot, principally her mom (very nice lady). I was pretty rude last time to be honest lol. I was being cordial, but then she had the guts to say "that after all this time, and things that happened we could still be friends". That hit a nerve lol. So yeah, I was pretty rude to her after she said that. Went along these lines. "Friends, because I am a cool guy, if I was anyone else, I would never talk to you again. Seriously, how could you have been soo stupid... blah blah blah" I was pretty harsh. I remember that I said that she acted in a very stupid way at least 3 times lol. Yeah.. not too proud of it now, but made me feel good at the time.

 

After that day I deleted her from msn, and didn't have anymore contact, till this lol.

[Snowy]

This is actually pretty funny. Who would have thought...after all those times. LOL

 

Thanks for sharing.

[EQIQ]

Yeah, last thing I would expect too. She must have been feeling really crappy, or been really drunk to do this lol.

[wlad14]

Maybe she just got dumped or is going through something very similar to what she has put you through. What goes around comes around,she is probably trying to apologize hoping her situation will get better lol

[Maverick1984]

Personally, don't give her an inch. She just wants the validation again that you're interested. Once she gets it from you, she will move on. Don't give it to her... Once a player, always a player.