23 y/o never been with a girl

[Kurosaki]

Just need some feedback/advice.

 

What would the girls think if they met a guy who had never really been with a girl.

 

I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin, and have never kissed a girl.

 

Would girls be freaked out by this, or think I'm just a big loser?

[Cognitive_Canine]

It's not an issue. I'd wonder why though.

[Is]

Everyone is different, if a chick leaves you because you are "Inexperienced", then she not good enough for you. I personally hate chicks grading you on your "experience".

 

Honestly, go out there and have fun. You never know unless you try.

[hrtlsngl7]

Don't say anything about it. Every guy is different they'll chalk up your inexperience to that. In fact don't let them know too much about you.

[SapphireNoir10]

Thats not weird. One of my first serious bf's was 24 and a virgin. It was never an issue.

[Is]

Thats not weird. One of my first serious bf's was 24 and a virgin. It was never an issue.

 

For men is bigger issue because many men boast their strengths like they are the Alpha CaveMan

[IphigeniaSaysHi]

I doubt a quality person would be turned off by this.

[easyguy]

Just need some feedback/advice.

 

What would the girls think if they met a guy who had never really been with a girl.

 

I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin, and have never kissed a girl.

 

Would girls be freaked out by this, or think I'm just a big loser?

 

I met my first girlfriend when I was 23 (and still at 23, have dated two other girls). Never had kissed or had sex prior to meeting my first. Honestly, it is not an issue. Don't pull out the V-card on the first date, though. Have fun getting to know different girls and go at your own pace and say eff it to your lack of experience in the dating department. If a girl is turned off by your lack of experience, move on. You're 23, the perfect time to go out and meet people. I have more experience now than I did like 9 months ago. Hasn't stopped me from meeting women. You, my friend, can do the same. Girls/women rock.

[lanceberry]

Dude im the same age as you what i would say is get out more go up to girls go out more...socialise etc..

[Kurosaki]

I see where you guys are coming from. I guess it'd be something that came up later on in the relationship if at all.

 

But I'm worried about not knowing how to deal with situations while dating and stuff like that.

 

It's a learning process I guess

[Cognitive_Canine]

I see where you guys are coming from. I guess it'd be something that came up later on in the relationship if at all.

 

But I'm worried about not knowing how to deal with situations while dating and stuff like that.

 

It's a learning process I guess

 

It is for everyone. But, you'll learn fast.

 

It's not like there are any huge secrets to relationships. Be honest, be considerate, play nice.

[easyguy]

Embrace your innocence. Some don't remember what that feels like, haha. And relationships and dating are not rocket science. You just go with the flow and work on being open.

[faithful14]

I wouldn't look at it as a bad thing at all.

[wtran]

Your question

Would girls be freaked out by this, or think I'm just a big loser?

 

Answer

No.

 

Go out and find a girl and report back, set up a timeline too 2 weeks a month.

[hrtlsngl7]

I see where you guys are coming from. I guess it'd be something that came up later on in the relationship if at all.

 

But I'm worried about not knowing how to deal with situations while dating and stuff like that.

 

It's a learning process I guess

 

I learned a long time ago....there is no procedure. Just feel it out as best you can, but your sound kind of nerdy so I'm sure you can find a book on the subject of dating.....i.e. "Dating for Dummies" same thing with sex. My 1st time going down on a girl, she said it couldn't have been my 1st time. RESEARCH, RESEARCH, RESEARCH!!!

[Day_Walker]

Im sure the girls would wonder why you havent chosen to partake in those particular things. Some girls will probably judge you for your lack of experience. The bottom line is though that you cannot be bothered by what these girls would think.

[easyguy]

I learned a long time ago....there is no procedure. Just feel it out as best you can, but your sound kind of nerdy so I'm sure you can find a book on the subject of dating.....i.e. "Dating for Dummies" same thing with sex. My 1st time going down on a girl, she said it couldn't have been my 1st time. RESEARCH, RESEARCH, RESEARCH!!!

 

Hah. I did the same thing with kissing. Two words - YouTube (or one word, whatever). First time kissing a girl would have been a lot more awkward had it not been for some research on kissing tips.

[george237]

It's not normal which is weird in most eye's. The only way to change it is to go out there and date, although I wouldn't spill the beans of your innocence until the 5th date or so.

[xyzzzz]

if i really like him i wouldnt mind.if im not sure,that's a con.

but anyways,u dont have to bring it up when dating a chick

[Jpo]

Just need some feedback/advice.

 

What would the girls think if they met a guy who had never really been with a girl.

 

I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin, and have never kissed a girl.

 

Would girls be freaked out by this, or think I'm just a big loser?

 

I can tell you right now that depending on what you are looking for/where you are meeting the women -- they will care.

 

Women who are really into the partying/club/bar scene seem to completely avoid virgins. I have had a few ask me point blank if I was virgin before sex because they would not have sex with me if I was. Even ones who might be interested in a relationship in the future.

 

Of course if you avoid that scene I don't think it will be that big of a deal at all.

[Jpo]

I think the main thing is don't advertise it. If you have been dating a girl and it comes to sex and you tell her, I don't think she will care.

 

If you tell her right off the bat though, I think you can lost some perceived value. What I mean is, she will think that maybe you haven't because no other girl wants you and so you aren't worth her time. Not that any of that actually matters if she likes you, but could create a bad first impression.

[iwishiknew]

Just need some feedback/advice.

 

What would the girls think if they met a guy who had never really been with a girl.

 

I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin, and have never kissed a girl.

 

Would girls be freaked out by this, or think I'm just a big loser?

 

 

Dude, don't feel so bad. You are not alone. I'm in the same boat as you. I'm 32 and I never had a gf, still a virgin and I never kissed a girl yet.

[Mr. Franklin]

Dude, don't feel so bad. You are not alone. I'm in the same boat as you. I'm 32 and I never had a gf, still a virgin and I never kissed a girl yet.

 

No offense. You two have huge age differences with the same lack of experience. I don't think it is a good way to compare the situations as if they are in the same boat.

[iwishiknew]

No offense. You two have huge age differences with the same lack of experience. I don't think it is a good way to compare the situations as if they are in the same boat.

 

Huge age difference? I don't think so. A 9 year age gap is not a huge age difference. I don't even look 32 at all. A lot of people are surprised that I'm 32 and a lot of people think I'm in my early 20's. Having a 9 year age gap is not a huge difference at all. A lot of people today don't look their age.

[LightbulbSun]

Mr. Franklin, thanks for making me feel even worse about my situation. Just because you're a certain age DOES NOT make you any worse off than another person.