Alone in las vegas

[acfan]

I am alone in a hotel room in vegas. I planned the vacation going alone but, everytime I go alone on vacation I get lonely and anxious. This is one of those what was I thinking moments. I went to vegas in August with a friend and did not get to see everything, so i decided I would go back on my own and take my time seeing things. I booked five days! So,now I have a lot of time but I am feeling lonely. It is so hard to realize how blind we can be to our own needs and not remember what works and what doesn't for us. Any thoughts or support would be appreciated. I hope evryone is having a good day.

[Mauxly]

Yeah, I get ya. The only time I have a good time alone on vacation is when I go somewhere really exotic with friendly locals. I pretty much have to leave the country to enjoy the solo vaca. Otherwise, I find myself in a hotel room wishing that I had someone to share it with. Especially after a recent break up!

 

You are sort of close to the Grand Canyon. Maybe rent a car, get some gear and do a back packing trip? You'll be solo, but at least you won't be alone in a crowd. Vegas can be a bitterly depressing place don't you think?

[FathomFear]

Yeah, I definitely know the feeling. I've vacationed alone before. You walk around and enjoy the sights, but at the same time can't help noticing how everyone around you seems to be with someone or in a group.

 

I would try to focus on enjoying yourself while tuning everything else out.

[JonasWaingaro]

I hear ya. I want to book something myself but can't make myself go alone - not yet anyway. It's good you made the step and went! Fortunately it Vegas. Sooo much to do and get distracted. Go out and see the things you missed. Heck go tour the casinos and do a slot machine crawl. I do that and usually solo. Not sure where you are staying but grab the bus on the strip and head up to old Vegas and see the Fremont experience. You did the hard part by going. Now go make the best of it! You can do it!

[Rdub]

I feel for you man, I get anxious form time to time. But sitting is your hotel room is only going to make it worse. Why not go and walk the strip, at least you'll be around other people. Stop at a bar have a few drinks loosen up. You might just meet some people down there and give yourself a real chance to have fun.

[guynextdoor]

Sounds good at the beginning but when it comes down to it, it does get only. Going on vacation alone is worse than eating by yourself at a restaurant or watching a movie in a movie theatre by yourself. Hope you find something to keep you entertain while you are there for 5days.

[jengh]

Honestly, I LOVE going on vacation alone. I get to do what I want, when I want. I've gone on a few by myself and have had an awesome time. If I got lonely, I would just call a friend and problem was solved. Just embrace the "me" time. Go to some shows, relax by the pool with a book... The time will fly.

[shes2smart]

I also love going on vacation alone.

 

There is a place about 20-30 minutes from the strip - Red Rock Canyon. Lots of great scenery/hiking...and a little further down the road is a place called Bonnie Springs Ranch where you can go trail riding. These are things I've gone to every time I've been in that area.

 

Unless you have a horse phobia, I'd recommend the trail ride. You'll go with a group and people are usually very relaxed, social and friendly. If you are looking for some interaction, I've found the kind of folks who seek out trail rides are generally pretty pleasant and many times the trail guides are also pretty cool, too. The ride is about an hour and isn't terribly challenging in terms of skill. I haven't been out that way in about 5 years, so you may want to call ahead and confirm days/hours they are open and whatnot. But, I would recommend that as something that would be something other than a casino/casino crowd and would give you some opportunity to interact with some other people.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

I am alone in a hotel room in vegas. I planned the vacation going alone but, everytime I go alone on vacation I get lonely and anxious. This is one of those what was I thinking moments. I went to vegas in August with a friend and did not get to see everything, so i decided I would go back on my own and take my time seeing things. I booked five days! So,now I have a lot of time but I am feeling lonely. It is so hard to realize how blind we can be to our own needs and not remember what works and what doesn't for us. Any thoughts or support would be appreciated. I hope evryone is having a good day.

 

I am going to be taking a one week road trip on my own in June. I don't mind doing stuff on my own because I will get to see and do more on my own than with someone. I am just nervous about driving on my own for a week.

[acfan]

Well, everybody I made it back on saturday. I started to focus on doing things instead of focusing on my feelings and had a good time. I realized that people are disracted in vegas and are there to get away from responsibility. I seem to only realize how lonely I am when I get out of my everyday life and see it clearly. I had good time, but for now, no more solo vacations for me. Thanks for all the support.

[JonasWaingaro]

Good job! Glad you had a good time. Though I'm like you, no solo vacations for a while! lol

[metrogirl]

I would soooo do Vegas by myself.. I love Vegas and could literally find 100 things to do with or without company.

 

Glad you had a good time!