She won't text me back...

[Theblueman123]

I've been talking to this girl for a while. The only problem is that she NEVER ( I mean never) texts me back. When I see her in person I ask if she still wants to hang out, to which she says yes. I tell her to text me but she never does.

 

I've given her enough chances, so I'm inches away from just ignoring her completely. Whats with this texting thing?

[BriarRose]

She agrees to go out with you, so what does it matter? She's obviously interested.

[Theblueman123]

She agrees to go out with you, so what does it matter? She's obviously interested.

 

How can I make plans to go out if she never replies, lol.

[waveseer]

How can I make plans to go out if she never replies, lol.

 

Call her?

 

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[Theblueman123]

Call her?

 

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I thought phone calls make you look needy?

[waveseer]

I thought phone calls make you look needy?

 

She already said she'd like to go out so I would think the call would be a "how are you would you like to do such and such on such and such day at such and such time."

 

I could be totally wrong though since I'm way older than you.

[butterfly0424]

She seems interested. Maybe she doesnt have that great of a texting plan. Call her.

[Theblueman123]

She seems interested. Maybe she doesnt have that great of a texting plan. Call her.

 

Yeah I'll do it tomorrow.

 

she could be a busy girl

 

I don't think so.

[doyathink]

call her. a lot of ppl dont like the text thing....its too impersonal. what happen to talking on the phone with this generation? lol

[-Sanguine-]

Call her! it will only make you look needy if you do it consistently for no reason.. but calling to ask if she wants to hang out is not needy.

 

some people just don't like to text.. it's funny cause not too long ago there was no texting and people still went out!

[Capricorn3]

When I see her in person I ask if she still wants to hang out, to which she says yes.

She's probably really confused why you keep asking her if she wants to hang out, she says yes, and then you don't make specific plans for a date. I would be confused too, lol. She's already said yes. Ball is in your court now.

[ghostdog]

Maybe she has a b/f and when you are texting her she is with him?

 

Sounds like she has a lot of other stuff going on (i guess with other guys) so the only time she's available to you is when she has nothing going on.

 

Proceed with caution.

[Scorpion Fury]

Seriously? Why am I the only person that's just gonna put it out there and say she's probably not interested?

 

You're a young buck, so I'm assuming she's a youngin too. She may just not want to be rude or honest or whatever by telling you she has no interest in you, so she says she wants to hang out even though she has no intention of following through. Actions speak louder than words. She can sit there and say all she wants that she wants to hang out with you, but her actions tell a different story.

 

You can try calling her, but if she doesn't get back to you after calling her once, I'd next her. Sorry kid.

[Scorpion Fury]

I thought phone calls make you look needy?

 

What? Where did you hear that?

 

Must be the difference in ages or something, but I think it's lame when a guy texts me to ask me on a date. I'd prefer a phone call.

[Miss Firecracker]

She hates texting, and so do I. My husband's sister loves it, and she NEVER called but bugged me with those messages. If you can't pick up the phone and call to speak to me, then don't bother at all. I even went so far as to call AT&T to disable our texting ability. That nipped the problem.

[lady00]

Not sure where you got the impression that calling makes you look needy. That just sounds really strange to me...I can't imagine why a person would find that to be "needy." It's not like you'd be calling every five minutes. Anyway, I agree with the other poster who said there is a chance she's not interested. I generally would think that a person who likes you would not ignore you but would say "hey I don't like texting" or "my texting plan isn't very good" (or something that gets that message accross).