The No Contact Rule Worked... Sort of : )

[Scout]

Maybe I'm simplifying this too much, but if you two broke up for legitimate reasons that did not involve either cheating on the other, and somewhere in the three month period that you two broke up she did sleep with someone else....I am having a hard time understanding why that fact alone has made you decide you want nothing else to do with her. I'm not judging you for feeling that way, just honestly curious. I've heard other men say similar things, women too, but more often men seem to be the ones less able to forgive. I honestly don't know if I would be able to either, it honestly depends on a lot of factors. I know for sure I would never forgive someone who cheated on me during the relationship, or hooked up with someone less than a month after we broke up.

[ilios69]

Good for you bro,dont listen to anyone.I dont think i could even face my x.nevermind taking her back.Im glad your moving on.