friends with benifits..bad idea..advice please

[ineedhelp23]

Me and my girlfriend had a TERRIBLE break up..she thought i was getting with other girls at a party..and she decided to try to hang with my BEST friend..after that ended and about two weeks passed we decided to meet up and talk. just as friends..the next day we had sex...BAD IDEA. so after getting over her and everything..im completley attached to her again.its like we are still together but i find text from her ex on her phone..writings on facebook that she wants to hang with some guy..idk she says she still loves me but its so dumb. im still attached to her..how can i let her go!!??

[-Sanguine-]

hate to say it, but sounds like you got to start the process over again.

don't have sex with her, go NC

unless you both have reliable plans to get back together..

 

sorry that happened, I hope it works out for you

[HeartGoesOn]

My opinion is that it's impossible to be "just friends", after only breaking up 2 weeks prior to that. In order to be friends again, you need an extended period of time, and space to be away from each other, and in many cases (not all), being friends again is not an option.

[ineedhelp23]

ha yea..we have no plans that are anywhat reliable..but idk i just have a want to have a girl that i can be close with..its stupid..shes coming over to talk in a bit..any quick advice on what i should say? or tell her later?

[ScubaDiva]

Are you going to be able to trust her?

[Crazyaboutdogs]

Me and my girlfriend had a TERRIBLE break up..she thought i was getting with other girls at a party..and she decided to try to hang with my BEST friend..after that ended and about two weeks passed we decided to meet up and talk. just as friends..the next day we had sex...BAD IDEA. so after getting over her and everything..im completley attached to her again.its like we are still together but i find text from her ex on her phone..writings on facebook that she wants to hang with some guy..idk she says she still loves me but its so dumb. im still attached to her..how can i let her go!!??

 

 

Ditch her. I suspect she made a big production out of "suspecting you with other women" in order to justify breaking up with you and hanging out with your friend. She painted you as the bad guy so that she could have her fun. Then she comes back, has you dangling and in the meantime encourages other guys. She is playing you and I would walk away from her and not look back. She is immature.

[ghost69]

stop talking to her and hanging out with her.