insecurities & attachment

[Pappers]

Hey there, I've noticed that I am feeling a little insecure about myself now that I am in love. When we were simply dating I felt very confident, and now I feel a little insecure about my physical appearance, personality, etc. It isn't nice at all!

 

I was hurt badly in a previous relationship where my esteem in some ways was really affected, but that was a long time ago and I thought I had moved on from this.

[faithful14]

When you're simply dating, if things don't work out, then you know you'll be okay and that's why you more confident. Now that you're in love with this guy and have developed feelings, you feel like there is something to possibly lose. It's normal to feel insecure but don't let it consume you. I'm sure you're a very attractive and wonderful person to be around and that's why your boyfriend wants to only be with you!