Seraphim Posted May 1, 2009 Author Share Posted May 1, 2009 Well I worked most of the day and then ran home and busted my backside and cleaned the house to exactly the way he likes it. He could eat off the floor if need be. Lets see what happens. Link to comment
rocio Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 This is definitely the state of affairs. I ALWAYS put myself last in absolutely every case. This is where I am guilty. I definitely need to step up and "get a life" as they say. I am just going to have to do this and to heck with everyone else. CAUSE I MATTER TOO! This is something I'm guilty of too. I take care of them when they're sick, support them when they're depressed or having a bad day, do their work for them when they're too worn out... But then when I'm sick or having a bad day (which is very rare), nobody's jumping up and down to support me. suddenly I'm needy or selfish. ha! In my case, my husband is not selfish, really. it's my fault for wanting to always be the hero. If you're going to take this advice, be prepared - your husband is going to become really upset and accuse you of being selfish. He's been so accustomed to the imbalance that he probably doesn't have any idea it's like that. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 2, 2009 Author Share Posted May 2, 2009 I know he will be. The thing is I am killing myself emotionally, mentally and physcially and spiritually with this.It has to stop. If he is mad so be it. Link to comment
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