THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE, Part 2

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Day Nine 9 April 2023

The urge to contact him has grown. Memories still float back. Tears are still here. Holding on. This will pass

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Day Ten 10 April 2023

Weird that it’s going to be two weeks soon. He reached out today for something that couldn’t be avoided (though technically, it *could* be on one hand)

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Day Eleven 11 April 2023

I have feelings of not wanting to be with him anymore becoming stronger. I’m not too sure what to think about it but I just want to focus on myself right now.

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Day Twelve 12 April 2023

Nearly half a month! Life throws it’s other obstacles at me. Be careful of who you choose to spend your time and words on.

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Day Three 13 April 2023

Soon it’ll be two weeks?? That’s a little crazy that I managed to get through those really really bad emotions initially.. I still feel it from time to time, gazing off into the distance, stoning about my situation. It’s normal. I just hope eventually he will come to terms with taking responsibility for what he has done - it wasn’t only me that was doing wrong.

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Days 14&15 April 2023
Its been way easier for me to handle this. If y’all don’t see me here anymore I’m feeling way better 🙂

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Day 23, 23 April 2023

Hey y’all, it’s been three weeks. Still feeling a strong sense of longing today, but I’m glad it’s almost a month. He’s looked at my social media and liked one of my posts knowing that I know I would see it. I didn’t do anything. It doesn’t mean anything unless he speaks or tries to change things. I hope I can look back at this in the future with laughter and ease. 

[Guest]

5 days since being blocked after an argument - I was unblocked on facebook yesterday....Though no reaching out or anything

Wonder if this is just a mind game or something 

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Day 31 1 May 2023

He reached out to wish me good luck for something. I said thanks back ‘cause I felt it was rude to ignore. I didn’t break any rules for sure because he initiated it! 

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On 4/26/2023 at 4:19 PM, Metalhead1 said:

5 days since being blocked after an argument - I was unblocked on facebook yesterday....Though no reaching out or anything

Wonder if this is just a mind game or something 

Are you still blocked? 

[Janeiac]

How is everybody doing? It's been years since the breakup that drove me to this forum, and I want to say, looking back on it all, I am so glad I kept moving forward and did not attempt to contact because I was, and am, so much better off without someone who made me so unhappy. He is so trivial and unimportant in my life overall.

When you are stuck in the thick of heartbreak it overwhelms your world, and you deserve so much better than a world of pain. Take heart and know that whichever way it goes you are better off. If your ex stays away you are better off being free of someone who doesn't love you. If your ex has a change of heart you have someone who actually wants to try. Stay strong for your own sake and that will make you available and desirable for someone who is good for you.

[Janeiac]

I'm sorry to see nobody seems to be using this thread anymore. Going NC with the support and guidance here helped me a lot, and I know it can help others, too.

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On 1/2/2024 at 1:14 AM, Janeiac said:

I'm sorry to see nobody seems to be using this thread anymore. Going NC with the support and guidance here helped me a lot, and I know it can help others, too.

I used to read all part 1 and 2 during my NC and i made it to 3 month now 

This thread is magical and helps alot 

I hope people who are going thru a hard time now to follow it

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On 1/8/2024 at 9:05 AM, blackmirror said:

I used to read all part 1 and 2 during my NC and i made it to 3 month now 

This thread is magical and helps alot 

I hope people who are going thru a hard time now to follow it

You are doing great! As you can see in this thread, you are not alone. KEEP GOING-- it gets better.