HoTung Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 wow thats great - just act cool i wish my ex would contact me but its not going to happen - i heard my friends bumped into him last weekend out clubbing - now i feel crap Link to comment
Girl wants EX Posted February 15, 2009 Author Share Posted February 15, 2009 sorry for you. yes, act cool... that is what in my mind... Link to comment
HoTung Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 i really want him to contact me all my friends kept bumping in to him from me until one of them accidentally slipped yesterday - now i feel awful and think he was on the pull altho they said he was with male friends what should i do? 3 weeks NC now Link to comment
Girl wants EX Posted February 15, 2009 Author Share Posted February 15, 2009 actually I was the first one made the contact right after break-up. i said in my email how i agreed with this breakup, because of.... i also asked him the name of the book he has, so i could check in library; and I mentioned that i agreed to keep friend relationship with him (he proposed that on breakup day).... anyway, after 1 week, he finally replied my email and his email is long too. He said he didn't reply me earlier because he was too busy. I don't buy this excuse. It must be another reason. i hope he wrote me because he kind of missed me. Good luck! Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 you need to go read the book, 'he's just not that into you.' Link to comment
Girl wants EX Posted February 15, 2009 Author Share Posted February 15, 2009 well, i know he is not into me right now, but he was. AND relationship is complicated... i don't think i should close this door just like that. While trying to date new guys, why bother to keep one more contact casually? People are changing all the time anyway... Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 i think the problem is if keeping in touch with him casually keeps you from moving on and meeting other guys. even if you are holding on for hope in the back of your head. Link to comment
Girl wants EX Posted February 16, 2009 Author Share Posted February 16, 2009 Moving On is certainly the right thing to do... but I found that lots of people keep running on "shopping" for someone special, and don't even try to really verify the one next by. Link to comment
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