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Question for the women about length and girth. Which do you prefer?

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There's no "gotta" to the whole 'dimensioning' thing. Google the videos of Vanessa del Rio. That girl could accommodate TWO horse chokers in front and one abaft, all at the same time. Plus, she could stick two big ones in her mouth at once, as well, and still generate some action.

 

That women is obviously a very talented lady, but thankfully most women can't do that. Otherwise, there would be no hope for small guys like myself.

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Oh. Well, it doesn't expand that much. Definitely not enough to accommodate some of the very large (8") penises that apparently exist.

 

I think anything bigger than 6" long is too large, to be honest. And not any bigger around than like 4". More than that is just too big, imo.

 

There are plenty of women that can expand to take 8 inches and even more. Maybe not most women, but plenty can.

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Women of course, are different inside as men are outside, lol. But comfortably? The consensus amongst my friends is that large penis's make for lot's of hurt if the man in question doesn't know how to use it.

 

Personally? Prefer girth with average size penis length. I don't feel like i could accommodate any more without pain.

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Personally? Prefer girth with average size penis length. I don't feel like i could accommodate any more without pain.

 

Average girth? or above average?

 

I wonder if there are more bigger girthed guys than longer ones.

 

I think it must be better to have alot of girth.

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Those things don't matter to me - what matters is whether he is a good lover and trying to please me as much as I aim to please him.

 

Guy with big penises (length, thickness, or both) seem to think that by just shoving it in they are a cassanova - those are the types of guys who don't get a call back from me lol

 

 

Yeah, I think a lot more men need to understand that there's a lot more to sex than just shoving it in there. If all he does is stick his penis in and thrust away, he's doing it wrong. A lot of men are like this.

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It's really hard to have a discussion about penis size with exact measurements because nobody can guesstimate correctly, and if you ask the guy he will exaggerate even if he has measured it. Regardless of what people say to make guys feel better, some women *can* take 8 or 10 inches just fine. Some can't! Everyone is different. Just because there are some women who crave freakishly large (which is hard to find.. you're narrowing down your choice of mate to about 1% of guys) doesn't mean there aren't other who would be perfectly happy with what you've got.

 

One thing I know is that watching porn can give you a very skewed view on what is "normal". Not only are those guys above average, but if the guy is shorter than average and the girl is small, it looks even bigger. So, as an avid porn viewer I have considered myself "average", actually maybe hoping for some extra size. I finally measure it the other day, guessing at around 6.5" maybe 7" if I'm lucky and found I'm just a hair short of 8". Well, according to the stats that's fairly above average, yet I look at it and it doesn't seem that big. I stopped watching porn so much recently and my sex life has improved quite a bit. Take that for what it's worth.

 

One last thing - yes, medically speaking, the vagina unaroused is only 4" long. However, two things: 1) It can stretch to accommodate, even over time. With both of my very long term relationships (11+ years and 4 years) there was a little bit of an issue at first but after time goes by it all fits in. 2) Even if you don't put it all in, the extra length helps with different sexual positions. Sometimes you can't get the last three inches or so inside in a certain position, but that extra length helped you make that position possible. If you're shorter, maybe that position is off limits, but so what? There are plenty of others to try and if you know what you're doing you'll please your woman.

 

Regardless of my size, I've been with some women who would orgasm multiple times during sex just from penetration, and some that required me to rub their clit to get them there. So everyone is different.

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In my opinion, size makes no difference if you don't know how to use it.

 

You can have a below average size, but if you can give your partner great pleasure, you'll have a happy lady.

 

You can have an above average size, but if you only know to just shove it in and jack hammer away, you'll have a very dissatisfied lady. Possibly hurting her physically in the process. In that case, it's not about the size, you just sucked in bed lol.

 

Besides phallus, you have fingers, mouth and tongue (plus toys and other stuff that people may use). It's all about finding out what your partner likes.

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For me it's about the guy attatched to the penis. I couldn't care what size it is, it's about him as a person not his bits.

 

I don't think you would think like that if your guy had a 13" penis with 8" girth, you would most certainly be mortified, and avoid sex at all costs lol. Just saying... there are cases where you might really love the guy, but... if he is really really small, or really really HUGE, then it might create problems.

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Too long is literally a pain. Too thick is not so much fun either. I've had some perfect penises though. Erect : 7 inches ( 17 centimetres ) - 8 inches maximum ( 20 centimetres ) with a good girth, straight or with a slight upward curve. Most importantly is if they KNOW HOW TO USE IT.

 

What I don't like :

 

a) Long, thin / skinny : I like the feeling of being " filled up " by the girth as it stretches my vaginal lips.

b) Short and thick : It doesn't quite " reach " the spot for me.

c) The worst : Micropenis ( I've never met anyone with a micropenis but my friend is currently dating a man and it's her biggest lament ).

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In my experience, most like girth, and a man who would do oral for them and like it. There is power in the penis. Some are willing to forget how stupid, needy, and weak you are, and do come back into bed for the peepee, but after the boomboom you will have a muzzle around your mouth, and ear plugs in their ears.

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