liquer Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 Was talking to a woman I'm interested in and seeing and it was going great, until she started talking about her ex-husband and his g/f. To be brief, she hates the way his g/f talks to her kids. Two of them live with him and she is threatening to beat his g/f up. I thought she was just letting off steam and laughed about that, joking about women fighting. Then, she dropped a bomb-shell and told me she'd beaten up a woman, a few years ago, and not lightly to boot. I asked what the woman had done to deserve this. She'd sneaked her daugther into a nightclub when she was 13 and she'd attacked her for that. I asked her how badly she'd beaten her up and she said she didnt hang around to find out. I'd really put me right off her as I'm not a violent man and whilst the woman was in the wrong to lead her daughter astray there was no need to behave like that. Plus, just to walk off and leave the other person a bloody mess and show no remorse. I'm not sure I can continue with this relationship. Any thoughts? Link to comment
xXPusHedAsiDeXx Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 Doesn't sound healthy to me ... certainly wouldn't be my cup of tea. What do you think would happen if you both had some form of argument, would she just beat you up? Link to comment
liquer Posted January 12, 2009 Author Share Posted January 12, 2009 Don't know. She's never attacked me, but if she did I'd just walk away. I would not hit back as I dont believe men should hit women. Just leave that situation and never come back. I just feel that her behaviour was appalling that night. To attack somebody, with such feriocity seems to me so cold-blooded. Link to comment
xXPusHedAsiDeXx Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 Certainly sounds brutal to me. If I was in your shoes, this isn't something I would continue with. But then if this is her past and she's made a change from that, might be worth giving it a shot? This is something you'll need to think about. Link to comment
DN Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 I would walk away - she seems to see nothing wrong with how she acts and that is bordering on psychopathic behaviour. from wikipedia: The psychopath is defined by a psychological gratification in criminal, sexual, or aggressive impulses and the inability to learn from past mistakes. Individuals with this disorder gain satisfaction through their antisocial behavior and lack remorse for their actions. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 I would say it is time to walk away from her. People reveal their personalities by the stories they share...I think this story gives a very good glimpse of the type of person she is...a loose canon. Link to comment
D_Lish Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 I'm wondering how much interest this woman actually had in you ...I mean, these are things you would NEVER reveal to a guy you were interested in and so soon. Know I wouldn't anyway. Sounds like she is trying to deliberatley put you off her. Crikey, think you should move further North. Seems to be a lot of oddball women down your way....LOL Link to comment
liquer Posted January 13, 2009 Author Share Posted January 13, 2009 I'm wondering how much interest this woman actually had in you ...I mean, these are things you would NEVER reveal to a guy you were interested in and so soon. Know I wouldn't anyway. Sounds like she is trying to deliberatley put you off her. Crikey, think you should move further North. Seems to be a lot of oddball women down your way....LOL LOL...true on both counts. Perhaps that was her way of getting rid of me and it worked. As for women further up North prefer Southern Belles. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 drama queen with lots of baggage. i'd of been gone at hello. Link to comment
liquer Posted January 13, 2009 Author Share Posted January 13, 2009 drama queen with lots of baggage. i'd of been gone at hello. With me it's the opposite. I'm like a moth to the flame. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 With me it's the opposite. I'm like a moth to the flame. then what is the question? or are you saying you just seem to be attracted to these types? Link to comment
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