BronzedSkin123 Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Or did it take awhile before you learned to enjoy it? If so, how long or how many times did it take to like penetration? Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 No actually it did take a while, a lot more painful the 3rd time than the 1st (I wanted to faint, agh), since that's when my hymen had been broken. I think it was rather on the 6 th or 7th time that I started getting used to it and enjoy it. In a way, that's exactly like when a new tooth comes out and at first it's painful, then takes a week or so and it gets adjusted. Link to comment
_Asti_ Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 It defintely took a few times. And the problem was that we only had weekends to do it, so it took a while for me to adapt because there'd be 7 days in between trying, so it felt like the first time for MANY times. It did pass though, there's no set # of times, it varies for each person. But I don't know of many girls who found their first time ENJOYABLE. As in physically. Emotionally, it was amazing...physically..mm not even close. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 True it's different when you compare it to how it was physically v.s. emotionally. On the physical part, no it wasn't fun with the pain going on while on the emotional side, I was rather shock and surprise that I started crying (yea even before we were gonna do it) and still cried afterwards. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 I was pretty indifferent the first couple of times, but after that, yeah. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 The first time wasn't all that much to talk about but after that i did. Link to comment
purpleduckie Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 it felt good the first time, yeah. it was equally painful though. my hymen didn't break so maybe that's why my first was more pleasant than most girls'. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 My first time was not conscentual so it was nothing to judge by, but yes I liked it with my husband after the first time. OMG, you got raped? If so sorry to hear about it. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 I hate scumbags like that, in my view they should be put on life in prison. Yet there are out there preying on little indefendless kids. Anyways good to hear you're ok with your husband. In that case then he should count of your first. Link to comment
Umlunguusa Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 well, I'm not a girl, but judging from the way my virgin girlfriend cried when we were both 12, I can tell it wasn't nice. That, and the blood. ugh. Link to comment
hiphop3 Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 i think the first 30x i hated it, i was in a lot of pain. i even went to the doctor b/ i was afraid something was wrong inside of me. after that check up tho it started to feel ok. i think it may have just been psychological. Link to comment
Balbina Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 I felt a little pain and discomfort the first time, but I sort of went for it anyway because I was too curious to let it dissuade me. I also didn't bleed, so that may be a factor. I feel like I kind of jumped right into it and didn't even pause to think that it was supposed to be a slow process to get into...I enjoyed it right away and still do. Link to comment
advgal6 Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 My first time was about a year ago. I still don't really enjoy it pleasure-wise. Vaginal sex just doesn't do anything for me yet. But I love to see how much he loves it, so I still look forward to doing it. lol Our first time, I was sore and bleeding everywhere and he was sore because we had to stop (because of the bleeding). Afterwards we were both limping around for hours. It was hilarious. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Sore and bledding, yea that's what I felt too but on the 3rd or 4th time. I guess sometimes a girl won't bleed on the first time. Link to comment
hiphop3 Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Sore and bledding, yea that's what I felt too but on the 3rd or 4th time. I guess sometimes a girl won't bleed on the first time. i never bled, i don't know if that's weird or not. but i've always been very athletic. i don't know if that makes a difference either. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 No not weird at all, not all girls react the same. Link to comment
TBE_1989 Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 It took me three or four times to begin to enjoy it. Link to comment
thejigsup Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 I got very lucky. My first time was with a much older man that I had been seeing for a long time. We started out just doing oral for the first year or so and I learned how to let my body enjoy the physical sensations. After a year of that, we had intercourse for the first time and I really enjoyed it. It hurt some and I bled a bit, but the physical sensations were recognizable as enjoyable. It didn't take long befor all systems were go! I have not always had good lovers and I couldn't enjoy sex with all the men. I guess because I was so spoiled early on, a man must be good in bed or I break up with him. The up side for the guys? I love sex an seldom say no. I really, truly enjoy it orally, intercourse, with toys, well, you get the idea. I am thankful I went with lust instead of love for my first. I know a lot of girls will say this is bad, but it allowed me to enjoy sex all these years and from what I read on here, that doesn't happen to every female. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 I am thankful I went with lust instead of love for my first. I know a lot of girls will say this is bad, but it allowed me to enjoy sex all these years and from what I read on here, that doesn't happen to every female. yea, different points of view. I know that if I had done that and my parents knew it was lust only, boy they would have freak out and my father would have look at it as something not to be forgiven that I should regret, now that's sooo extreme, see their way of seeing it is doing it with someone you love and later on plan on getting marry. If you don't regret it then you don't. Link to comment
hiphop3 Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 i don't know..my first time was about lust too and i'm glad it was. i don't think i would ever fully recover if i gave myself to some one i love who i would eventually inevitably lose. Link to comment
hiphop3 Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Yea, people is a world alright. As for me I was already in love way before I gave myself in. As to why I did it it was for both reasons, I would say it was 50/50 on love/lust. I was also curious and wanted to get that over with already. I'm still with him, lol. i definitely just wanted to get it over with. no regrets tho. Link to comment
kaoticbaby Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 i first had sex with my ex when i was just turning sixteen years old. i don't think i ever really enjoyed it with him because he was too selfish in bed. i didn't enjoy it much until i started seeing my current boyfriend... so i guess it took around 4, almost 5 years for me. Link to comment
BronzedSkin123 Posted November 28, 2008 Author Share Posted November 28, 2008 I thought sex was better when you are in love..so why are people happy that they were in lust? Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 I thought sex was better when you are in love..so why are people happy that they were in lust? Some people just view sex as a purely physical act so they don't tie in love with sex. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 I guess there's no real true concept on what sex should be, it varies to everyone. Link to comment
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