YiA Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 Even as I'm writing this, I know what needs to be done. I guess I am just seeking advice, affirmation. My boyfriend of 5 years (living together with our young daughter for about 2 of those) absolutely refuses to spend time with me. When he goes out with his friends, even when it's couples and not 'just the guys', I am specifically NOT invited, and he tells me so. Also cases like this: When we were invited to his friends wedding, we both went. After the ceremony, there was some time in between the ceremony and the reception. He was an usher and had some things to take care of. So I went to get my nails done quickly, and he said he'd call me when he got to the reception. By the time I got sick of waiting and angry(it was about 3 hours or so later) I called HIM and he said that the reception was over and they were heading to someones house for an afterparty. He didnt volunteer any info as to WHERE it was or anything. I was pissed to the point of tears and just ended up going home. He of course lied to everyone why I wasn't there. That happens a lot-on the rare occasion that we DO go out together, its like he purposefully does something stupid like that to ruin it. Eventually he just stopped making any effort to spend time with me altogether. His friends are his priority. We pretty much ignore each other at home as well. This isn't the only problem we have, but if I listed them all it would take all night...lol...but what do you gys think? Is this fixable or should I see this as one of the many reasons to leave his ass...? (I am hesitant to leave him for financial reasons, plus he is NOT a jerk to my kid...he's a loving dad and a better disciplinarian than I am...it seems like he has great relationships with everyone BUT me...) Link to comment
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