Thunderforce Posted August 24, 2008 Share Posted August 24, 2008 Does anyone recognize this? I'll try and explain: Talked to a Man (let's call him: Matt) online. exchanged lot's of e-mails and talked online for hours. Such a funny guy, at times he had me rolling over the floor with laughter. After 2 weeks we met i.r.l. We had a blast!!! He became flirty with me, sometimes slightly touching me. He really showed and told he was interested in me. For example. He had his dog with him. His dog was following me everywhere. He said: well I have a clever dog, he knows my taste. I liked him and told him so buttt... somewhere downside I was not feeling it yet. I kept that for myself... because I have to get to know someone better to let these feelings grow. And yes I liked him that much to give it a chance. So at end of the date I told him I hoped to see him again. I gave him a short sweet kiss and then hold back. I could tell he expected a longer kiss but well I left it with that. Said that I would see him soon again ... After that date, I got textmessage that he really enjoyed our date, hope to speak to me soon and that he thought I was such a nice and beautifull girl. I replied back in same kind of manner. Next day I got an e-mail of him with some pictures he took and some sweet comments. And then fast forward 9 hours. He comes online and sais, I have to tell you something, let me call you. He said that recently he got in touch with his ex gf again. She was still very much in love with him. They were going of and on in relationship for a few years ... but never worked out for some reason. And he said ... well my heart is weak, and talked to her that afternoon. First with intention to tell her that he met someone else but after a few hours of talking he changed his mind and well bottom line: He chooses to rekindle with her. I wished him good luck and wished him a good future and thanking him for honousty and nevertherless great date. I got the 'friend-line' ofcourse but I'm not paying to much attention to that. He has my respect to be open and honoust about this. But nowwww I want what I can't have ... that feeling, at first I wasn't even that enthusiastic and now I feel so so rejected that I can't stop thinking about him. Blehhh, and that's not the first time I have been feeling this way after rejection. Link to comment
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