pboy Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 do you believe in fighting for love? I dont even know if this is in the right area, so im sorry if it isnt. and i dont even know where to begin, but i'll try and avoid a very lengthy post. a friend and i were once 'involved' with each other, but that slowly started to taper out. it was clear we were friends, but sometimes we would act like FWB or even a couple. she was still torn and getting over a very lengthy bad relationship with her ex, and i respected that and knew that 'whatever' we had wouldnt go further than the attraction we had towards each other...at least at that point. i work on call, so that means if i dont get called in, i dont get paid. i live 2 hours away from her, but im 90% always in her area because thats where my friends and everything else are, but ive driven just to see her tons of times. back in late May, i stopped getting called in for work, and basically i havent seen her in 2 months. 2 long months, and its harsh. i saw her the other day when i had some money, and it was just different. she said she had a bad day; but i wrote her about it...and she said that maybe her feelings arent the same for me anymore because she hasnt seen me in a while. is it possible that the feelings will come back if she saw me more again? we used to see each other almost every weekend. i care DEEPLY for this girl. if you guys only knew the things ive done for her...i mean i care VERY DEEPLY for her...and i guess it all matches the definition of "love". yes, i love her as a friend, but more than that. no, we werent in a relationship, but we both wanted to see "where we would go"...and maybe i wanted things to turn out more than she did. i just read what she wrote me, and im crying. i dont know if shes saying " i dont know if i like you anymore" or "i dont like you anymore"....but im just hurt and more lost than before.i REALLY want her to have feelings for me again, and i know you cant force that...but we just had so much that i felt "she was the one"...if not now, then a little later. ive heard and know all the things i "should hear", and everything i "want to hear"...but please... someone say something. do you believe that things like this are worth fighting for? even if just for a chance?? Link to comment
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