it would be useless to break NC, he doesn't care

[Caterina]

People say that it gets better over time, but I'm not sure about t hat. When he first broke up with me, I had a blast for a month with my freedom. But lately, I've gone home and cried. I wonder if he's already gotten a girlfriend. I know b/c he isn't on AIM anymore...I blocked him and since then he hasn't been on it at all.

 

 

I feel like the more I stay away, the more he stops caring.

[NorthDallas40]

And that's why you keep NC. If he doesn't care, you don't need to be reminded of it right in your face. You're better off not hearing from him at all.

[pinkelephant]

He probably blocked you since you blocked him.

 

 

If he doesn't care when you're away, there's a small chance he'll care if you're there.

[Caterina]

I think I had a temporary set-back. I bloecked him on AIM, and it was the best thing. He probably blocked me in response, as you say: although I don't know how he'd know. But his blocking me is probably the best anyways since it makes it hard for me when I see him on it.

 

He might have a girlfriend...but its silly to think about that. Its hard at some points: but that person is someone from the past. He didn't think I was worthy enough to fight for and I have to accept that. Life isn't always fair, but you know, sometimes when God shuts a door, he opens a window.

 

Its amzing how good I feel after I've done a little bit of exercize, to.

[Ellie2006]

Yes, like you said, it is most likely a *temporary* setback.

Unfortunately, it doesn't suck any less just because it's temporary.

 

What worked for me whenever I felt a bit panicky is to remind myself again why it's better not to hear from him bc nothing good can really come of it.

 

Try to keep yourself occupied?

[Catdancer]

Stay strong and true to yourself. You two broke up because something in your relationship broke. That means that it wasnt right. So take this time and discover what's important to you. Your opinions and mindset are all that should matter right now.