thekid55 Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 If anyone has ever read any of my posts, just like everyone else, I'm looking for advice with relationship. My first relationship that brought me here was a 2 year long relationship that ended when I left home for college. I was absolutely devastated. Mind you that I am a teenager and most people on this site have more life experience than I do. When (let's call her girl A), broke up with me, I was completely devastated. I begged, pleaded, cried, etc...anything to get her back and it just wouldn't work. I even showed up at her work to see her...she made plans with me and got cold feet right before. :splat: This heartache I had probably lasted a good 4 months... I look back on this time and I realize that I wasted 4 months of my life. At the same, I can't say that I totally regret it. This relationship ending opened up a lot of new doors for me. I met a ton of great people at my college. I got involved in activities and even got into really good shape. I took care of myself. I got me back. After I got myself back, I started to attract new girls at college. Girls of all different sorts while Girl A was slowly being erased from my thoughts. I had a relationship at school in the spring with Girl B which I still cherish even though that it's over. But here is my revelation: Last night, I went to the All-Star game. I was with my best friend from home. Having a great time...one of the best nights of my life. Girl A (original girl who brought me to ENA), has been texting me the last few nights asking if I had been at the HR derby and all-star game. I've replied with one more messages...until I received this text from her randomly around 12 AM.... "you know there hasn't been a day when i haven't thought about you" After I read this, I thought to myself, I would have given anything to hear that 6 months ago...but I almost feel bad for her now. No one would believe what she put me through after the breakup and she was texting me saying this now. After all this time, that text meant nothing as I no longer feel for her anymore. If she truly thought of my positively, she wouldn't have put me through that. My point with this post: I know that a lot of us are going through tough breakups, but when you look back on them, they happened for a reason. A reason that you may not have been able to control. Better things will fall into place for you. Take my word for it... While I may be young, I can guarantee everyone one thing, No bit of begging, pleading, convincing, or reasoning will bring someone back...you have to let go and that very same person might come back to you one day...the question is, How far past the breakup will you allow yourself to be? Link to comment
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