lostnva Posted July 13, 2008 Share Posted July 13, 2008 So my fiance and live in boyfriend of 4 years left me 2 weeks ago. Out of the blue. He said he wasnt happy, and he was very confused. He has been drinking and smoking pot ALOT...he use to only smoke every now and then. Now its basically first thing in the morning and on his lunch break, in the car on the way home..along with a beer that he stops and gets right after work! Plus the 6-8 he drinks when he gets home. He is very depressed and hates his job. His mother died a year ago, and then his grandmother 6 months later. He was an only child and has no real family left. His dad and him are not close. He just recently got overnight visitation with his 2 daughters. He says he loves me. But he has completely shut me out. He doesnt call, text email or return my calls or text. We were together everyday...very close, this is so not like him. He only took some clothes, and still has all of his stuff here. We have our wedding rings! When I ask him if he was coming home he said doesnt know. He says he doesnt have any anwsers and doesnt want to hurt me. He is an emotional wreck. He saw a drug therapist last week who reffered him to a Pysh. So he says he has an appointment with ths week. I really scared he is not going get help, and mask the pain with drugs and beer, and ruin us for good. I love him so much. I am so sick, I have lost 12lbs in 2 weeks. I cant eat, sleep or think straight. I am a teacher and on summer break..so I just sit here all day. We have 2 puppy kids that were our life. They sense something is not right...thank god I have them to sleep with! I dont know what to do. I bought this 4 bedroom house with a pool and garage for him...and our girls. And now he has walked out on all I have worked hard for. Everything is in my name, but its alot to keep up with. The dogs are a huge responibility. Cutting the grass, cleanng the pool, and the house...I havent even been to the grocery store since he left. That was his job...(he said I spent to much). I dont know how Im going to do this if he decides to moe out. Any imput? Link to comment
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