sushi_pompom Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 I just recently started officially dating a man who is ten years older. We've known each other a year and seven months and were instantly attracted to one another the moment we met, but we were both getting out of pretty bad relationships (I was with someone who turned out to be gay and his wife cheated on him.). We took our time and saw each other every few months due to mutual friend gatherings and such, nothing formal or romantically planned...nothing official. We would flirt, talk and touch at these events, we would just have great time. Well at a gathering in May he finally decided he was ready to date, that he wanted to see me outside such events and asked for my address so he could come see me (he lives 77 miles from me.) He started calling me on a regular basis which he never used to do and we made plans for him to come down. Well we spent the last two Saturdays together which have been wonderful but very sexually filled. We have yet to have sex but we are like two horny teenagers when we're together...we can't keep our hands off each other. He's actually told me he's never been so "excited" by a woman in his life and from they day he first laid eyes upon me he has had "thoughts" and has fantasized about me. It's all very flattering and makes me feel incredibly sexy but I'm scared that that's the only reason he is interested in me. On other levels we get along great. We laugh and talk...he says he feels comfortable with me, like he can just be himself. Our personalities and mannerisms seem to be very similar...we just seem to have a good time together whether fooling around or just hanging out. And I have said some things that would probably scare a guy off if he just wanted sex. I told him that I really liked him and that he made me very happy. He didn't freak out, he reciprocated and told me that I too make him happy. Plus I inquired about who knew about me...he told his mother. Good sign, maybe?? I don't know... What are signs that a guy just wants sex?? How do you know he wants more then to get in your pants?? Link to comment
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