TheDoctor Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 I have been going to my gym for a few years and there is quite an attractive girl that works there. She is the girl that checks people in and while I've had several short lived hi/bye situations with her most of the time she has never shown any real interest. I have tried to approach her to start conversations before, but she has brushed it off and not really given me the opportunity. She never checks me out, never smiles my way, never really tries to do anything to catch my attention. The other day she told my friend ( she didn't know it's my friend) she finds me to be very attractive and definitley the type of guy she would go for if only I had interest. I thought to myself that I would of never guessed in a million years that she had any interest. The ironic thing is I have this funny feeling that if I went after her and was overly aggressive she'd be turned off. In retrospect, I have noticed that young women in general have always been SUPER timid and always try to hide any interest. They will occasionally glance at you but even if you approach them to talk they might still not show any interest despite them finding you to be an attractive person. So ladies, is it just because your shy or is it because you expect us to come after you? Link to comment
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