Quick question

[DaXMan]

This may be confusing, but here it goes: How do you tell a girl you like, that the other guy she likes has no feelings of love towards her, in hope that she will then go out with you? (the commas are there to kinda separate the thoughts). Any help would be appreciated.

[thatguy04]

Well, I'm sure you can tell the girl upfront, for her sake. Just make sure your being honest, because if its a lie just so you can get the girl, forget about it. Thats just dirty and selfish.

[The Morrigan]

Personally - I wouldn't. It can come from someone else - this isn't something you want to be the bearer of bad news on if you have an interest in her yourself. Either someone else will let her know, or it'll become apparent another way, and you can be the one then that she overlooked if you play it right. This is something she's better hearing from a sibling, the guy himself, or a female friend with no interest in the guy involved - someone who is really a completely impartial messenger. "Don't shoot the messenger" might apply - but she sure isn't going to think of you with happy thoughts for a long time if you're the one to break the news. You're in a far better position being there after she finds out another way.

[thatguy04]

O ya, guess I forgot that, sorry(thxMorrigan). Just make sure she finds out somehow eventually. But like I said before, please dont tell her this if its not true, cause it may just cause alot of pain and no good for anyone.