Mini-golf?

[Firiel]

So, if the stars (aka our schedules) align, I'm going to be hanging out with a guy I met online this weekend. We've met once, hung out and chatted for about an hour... it was a lot of fun, and he seemed really cool.

 

We continued e-mailing back and forth and I asked him if he wanted to hang out again this weekend... he said yes, and then asked me what I wanted to do, expressing interesting in doing something outside.

 

I tend to be entirely uncreative, so I'm thinking mini-golf... yes? No? Any better ideas that are outside and low-key?

[kuiks8]

mini golf, driving balls, hiking, batting cages, a walk in the park all good ideas

[annie24]

lol, you can chase squirrels around the park! that would be a bit.... odd! minigolf sounds fine. just something outside that gives you a chance to talk is good. have fun!!!! let us know how it goes.

[Censored]

Mini golf is cool. I think it is a creative non traditional way to got for a date.

Relaxed, fun easy going. Opportiunities to tease each other in a nice way.

 

I go with Mini Golf!!!

[russ978]

DAMMIT! People are aware of the most underused and romantic dates ever...

 

Mini-golf...guranteed fun and you get to see how his manners are...and what he thinks about kids...

 

No downside unless one of you gets a hole in one on the last hole and gets a free game...which will require a future mini-golf date.

 

Excellent!

[ghost69]

hell yeah mini golf. then he can get his hands all over you. lol

[confused25]

Good choice. I love mini golf! I think I'd much rather do that than say going out to a dinner or movies . . .

[Firiel]

Oh good... glad it's not a stupid idea. Thanks, guys! I'll let you know how it goes...

[ghost69]

make sure the balls are clean and the putter is the right size.

[Censored]

make sure the balls are clean and the putter is the right size.

 

LOL....ok, i didn't laugh at that.

 

LOL

[Firiel]

LOL....ok, i didn't laugh at that.

 

LOL

 

I definitely did laugh...

[ghost69]

i laugh at your avatar everytime i see your posts. lol

 

its like someone said 'Firiel' you looked and the flash was on mega bright. lol

[Firiel]

Yes, well, I do take a certain amount of pride in my ability to make awkward faces for pictures.

[ghost69]

so did you go?

[Firiel]

It ended up not working out time wise. There's a good chance we'll hang out again, but probably only as friends... when we first hung out, I left thinking that he was a nice guy, but I wasn't sure if we clicked romantically (which is why I wanted to do something casual like mini-golf when we hung out again). We talked a bit on IM when our schedules decided to hate each other, and it turns out he felt the same way which was cool by me... takes any potential pressure off.

[annie24]

that's cool, nothing wrong with just hanging out as friends. i know a couple who met, didn't hit it off, but since they had a lot in common, they kept hanging out, and eventually they fell in love and married. not everyone has sparks on the first date.

 

good luck!

[ghost69]

dam. keep us posted.

[hockeyboy]

two things i'm terrible at...bowling and mini golf. i took my last date bowling and will be taking my next date mini golfing on saturday.

 

i think something like that makes a first date easier. If you do dinner, you have to sit accross from each other and stare at each other eating...people get self conscious about that. with something like a movie, you don't get the chance to talk.