Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 dood, no offense but your overthinking and asking questions about every single thing is very very annoying........ you asked her for a drink, trust your heart and go fo it number one reason why most men fail is that they OVERTHINK and ask to many questions your doing fine, keep doing what your doing and stop analyzing everything. go for the knockout, asking questions does nothing but make you overthing thus getting nervous Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 if she pulls out her phone and checks it and you see that, be like 'oh, texting/waiting for a call from.. your bf?' it's an easy way to find out. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 Only time will tell. When she gave you her email was it hotmail ie MSN? It was her school email. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 dood, no offense but your overthinking and asking questions about every single thing is very very annoying........ you asked her for a drink, trust your heart and go fo it number one reason why most men fail is that they OVERTHINK and ask to many questions your doing fine, keep doing what your doing and stop analyzing everything. go for the knockout, asking questions does nothing but make you overthing thus getting nervous Yeah, I know, it's just hard for me not to. I guess I just see the world in cut and dry pieces and when it's not cut and dry, it's just damn confusing. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 Are you sure the e-mail address was correct? To me it sounds mainly like a turn down with a slim chance that she wanted to think about it first and will get back to you. Yeah, it was a school email, which goes by first initial, last initial, then student id number, and I can't say for a fact, the last initial, or id, but the first letter was definitely right. I will see her again today, so who knows what will happen. I at least gotta return my library book. LoL. Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 Yeah, I know, it's just hard for me not to. I guess I just see the world in cut and dry pieces and when it's not cut and dry, it's just damn confusing. tis not confusing hey woman, lets go out.... ehh no not now so when are you available, im not trying press you or anythng forgive me if i am boom Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 Which is what all I did basically. Except for apologizing if I was pushing her, which maybe I should have done or maybe shouldn't have. I will see her one last time today officially then possibly one last time for next Monday, but that will be my last class day in her campus. So I will not see her anyway, so that's maybe a bummer but maybe nothing also. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 stop with the apologizing. i don't see where you pushed her. you asked to meet you for a drink and then you asked for a phone number when she declined. no biggie. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 No I didn't apologize. SBJ said about it in his last reply. I just returned my book to her and she was all sweet and everything like, thank you very much. Then I had to go to class. So at least I made a new friend at least I guess. LoL. She's way more polite, now that I asked her out. Which I guess makes sense. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 'so how about that drink?' that's what you shoulda said. Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 this is what you remind me of a quaterback who habitually ask question Ok so when i say hike i go right yes ok now when i go i go right, right yes ok now when im rolling right i throw it overhand or underhand overhand ok when i throw it overhand do i stop and * * * * -it back? or do i just beam it beam it ok when i beam it, will the receiver catch it or should i take some off he should catch it ok so if he catches it, should i be happy yes ok............... you making progress dont keep thinking, just beam it....dont think, beam it YOU beam her, dont ask questions just beam her.....you beam her until you cant beam her anymore Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 'so how about that drink?' that's what you shoulda said. Yeah, maybe you are right but I already brought it up twice in conversation and once in email with no reply. So I don't think she wants to say yes. Dunno what you think. I even gave her a chance to reschedule when she doesn't have class and asked her if there was any other time, but still nothing. So it looks like it's getting nowhere fast. Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 by any chance have you asked her for fallatio? Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 by any chance have you asked her for fallatio? I was looking for a reply from ghost69 but oh well, LoL. Link to comment
SuperSport Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 Yeah, maybe you are right but I already brought it up twice in conversation and once in email with no reply. So I don't think she wants to say yes. Dunno what you think. I even gave her a chance to reschedule when she doesn't have class and asked her if there was any other time, but still nothing. So it looks like it's getting nowhere fast. Why are you e-mailing her when you just said you went to the library and talked face to face. You should have asked then instead of emailing and waiting. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 I emailed her on Monday night after I saw her and talked to her face to face now. She didn't say anything about the email and didn't reply to my email. She also never said anything about going for a drink or anything today. But I asked her once at first about going for a drink, and tried to let her reschedule but nothing. Then I said too bad you have claass until 9 and can I get your number to reschedule sometime? Nothing and she looked like she definatly did not want to give me her number and just wrote her email really quickly and did not smile after she gave it to me. I really don't think she wants to go, because of how she acts. I think she's being nice in turning me down. I know I could be wrong, but when you ask someone 2-3 times if they want to go for a drink, isn't that enough? EDIT: To tell you the truth, she looked like she didn't really care to give me any contact info and actually almost forgot to write out her email for me. It was a school one that hardly anyone checks or uses that she gave me anyway. That to me alone smells no no no. LoL. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 Yes, you've asked enough and she has declined. On to bigger and better things! Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 Finally someone has thought that I asked enough. I thought I was going nuts thinking that I was the only one who thought that I asked her enough and eventually was just going to annoy her. LoL. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 No I agree with Batya and I am sure everyone else too. Anything more you try from this point on will come off as annoying since she doesn't seem interested. You asked, she indirectly responded. Onto other girls. Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 i dont you go back up there and ask her out again young man Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 i dont you go back up there and ask her out again young man I don't know if I can ever believe you SBJ LoL. Link to comment
SuperSport Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 You are not going to see her again after next semester, so why keep pursuing? You did a good job stepping to the plate and it seems you are proud of yourself for it, now it will be that much easier when the next hottie comes along. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 You are not going to see her again after next semester, so why keep pursuing? You did a good job stepping to the plate and it seems you are proud of yourself for it, now it will be that much easier when the next hottie comes along. This is 100% true. SuperSport, you are a great replier, LoL. Link to comment
SuperSport Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 Hey I try to help. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 Hey I try to help. Yeah, if it wasn't for you, I may have not ever done it, and I would be filled with even more questions like would she have said yes or no? Why were you relieved when she said no, with your girl? Because your work was over? Link to comment
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