whats worse cheating or lying?

[jimthzz]

All cheating involves lying. and that is an awful thing that is worse than "mere" lying.

 

Why?

 

Because lying does not involve physical intimacy with a third party that puts the deceived person at risk for disease.

 

A liar is pretty bad, sure, but a cheat takes away their whole being from their loved one.

[yeawutever]

Both off them are just as bad as the other. It also doesn't what type of cheating it was, whether it was kissing or intercourse, cheating is cheating. Thus they would be a total deal breaker to me, equally.

[mrmaximum]

To be honest, I would rather be with someone that cheats that tells me about it, than with someone who lies to me constantly. I mean, really, I wouldn't be with either, but if I HAD to choose, I would choose the honest cheater.

 

Exactly what I'd say here!!

[markusG]

Id go with the honest cheater too.

 

Lying is far worse.

 

Both wrong I know, but 1 night stands do happen to people ive been a victim. If it's emotional and with a friend and an affair thats far worse as it does involve lying and calculated action. and i think it's the emotional betrayal that is the Biggest insult.

[cheekychic]

lol i wish the guy i jsut split with thinks like you guys.

he told a number of little lies which he sais are only little lies to prevent arguments and me questioning him so they are nothing really. also he has made all these other new female friends over the course of our relationship that he blatantly flirts with a bit.

but he jstu sais "i have never cheated on you and would never cheat on you so thats all you need to worry about"