aNnAeLiZaBeTh Posted July 10, 2007 Author Share Posted July 10, 2007 But there is something a little different about a girls labia hanging out a little that just grosses me out. It's kinda like a little tongue sticking out of you saying "nah nah nah nah boo boo..." haha. most women have a labia that sticks out. in fact, a guy on another post said he really prefers it like that because otherwise it looks like a little kid's...i'm already self conscious about it, you could've phrased it better. maybe you should try making your point in a way that isn't quite so dang rude, because you never know whom you have "grossed out" with yours... Link to comment
SexySadie7 Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 hahah.. Climmie.. I think I would too, I find penises to be beautiful things myself. "Gosh, that was educational!! The one thing that struck me was, do men actually find that attractive?" well, climmie, it's a darn good thing they do.. Where would we be if they didn't? I agree I rather look at penises. I find it rather gross looking at other women's ahems myself. Link to comment
aNnAeLiZaBeTh Posted July 10, 2007 Author Share Posted July 10, 2007 Anne, Up until I got married at 28, I dated quite a few women, and can tell you that the world would be a very boring place if they all looked alike. Thats half the fun, if you know what I mean!!! No two women look identical, and there is no such thing as an ugly AHEM. It's beautiful because it's YOUR ahem, and no one elses. Honest. I love ahems!LOL!! lol thank you! that makes me feel much better about my ahem lol Link to comment
aNnAeLiZaBeTh Posted July 10, 2007 Author Share Posted July 10, 2007 i dunno...penises are okay but testicles sometimes aren't as beautiful lol Link to comment
SexySadie7 Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 Well, kimsguy.. that's great that guys feel like that! "Anne, Up until I got married at 28, I dated quite a few women, and can tell you that the world would be a very boring place if they all looked alike. Thats half the fun, if you know what I mean!!! No two women look identical, and there is no such thing as an ugly AHEM. It's beautiful because it's YOUR ahem, and no one elses. Honest. I love ahems!LOL!!" Actually, even though the equipment is about the same, guy's penises are all slightly different too. We are ALL different. Thank God! Who'd want to look exactly like someone else? That is what makes life so interesting. Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 I've known my husband for 26 years, and he's never even looked at mine. I don't look at it either. That's something I've never even thought about. Do people really look at those things? Link to comment
aNnAeLiZaBeTh Posted July 10, 2007 Author Share Posted July 10, 2007 lol yeah, people look at them i think...doesn't he ever go down on you? Link to comment
brooooooooke Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 most women have a labia that sticks out. in fact, a guy on another post said he really prefers it like that because otherwise it looks like a little kid's...i'm already self conscious about it, you could've phrased it better. maybe you should try making your point in a way that isn't quite so dang rude, because you never know whom you have "grossed out" with yours... amen. i found that really offensive too. and after looking at all of those pictures on the vulva revealed i do feel alot better about mine. Link to comment
aNnAeLiZaBeTh Posted July 10, 2007 Author Share Posted July 10, 2007 omg i know, the pics were seriously helpful in making me feel better about mine!! lol. i never really knew how different they all really are until i went there and looked at all those pics and they really do range in every way, shape, and form. Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 lol yeah, people look at them i think...doesn't he ever go down on you? No, because I don't want him to. And I couldn't pick my own out of a lineup. Link to comment
aNnAeLiZaBeTh Posted July 11, 2007 Author Share Posted July 11, 2007 really?? it's really fascinating to know yourself--even in the "down there" region. you should really consider it. one day that you have the house to yourself, you should take a small hand mirror and take a look...it's not perverted or anything, it's just your womanhood. it's yours--be familiar with it and know it. after all, it is your best friend Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted July 11, 2007 Share Posted July 11, 2007 I will consider that. LOL Link to comment
aNnAeLiZaBeTh Posted July 11, 2007 Author Share Posted July 11, 2007 lol dont be embarrassed! you really should consider it. make yourself a strong cranberry juice and vodka first Link to comment
JadedStar Posted July 11, 2007 Share Posted July 11, 2007 I looked at the link provided "the vulva revealed" and I am not sure if i were a man i'd ever want sex again after viewing all those pics LOL Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted July 11, 2007 Share Posted July 11, 2007 lol dont be embarrassed! you really should consider it. make yourself a strong cranberry juice and vodka first Maybe after a glass of Pinot Noir. I'll give a report here if I do that. I wonder if those sites have any photos of older vulvas? Would they look any different than the young ones? I think I'm going to vomit. Link to comment
Suesser Tod Posted July 11, 2007 Share Posted July 11, 2007 Maybe after a glass of Pinot Noir. I'll give a report here if I do that. I wonder if those sites have any photos of older vulvas? Would they look any different than the young ones? I think I'm going to vomit. Yes, several of them are from mature females. Don't worry, IMHO the vulva ages really well, as being a structure with no bone or muscle support, it keeps its shape. Here is a quote from that site: Women are often ashamed for their vulvas, and men are often shamed for their fascination with them. Yet every woman has one and most men like them and want them. Trust me, for males, the vulva is one of the most beautiful body structures. Link to comment
aNnAeLiZaBeTh Posted July 11, 2007 Author Share Posted July 11, 2007 really, tod? a lot of those pics look so unattractive to me lol i mean, i'm not a lesbian, so i really don't know, but they look....unattractive is the only word i can think of lol Link to comment
EvaGina Posted July 12, 2007 Share Posted July 12, 2007 we "hang" a little differently, just as men do... it make sense for the labia to form a little protective pocket thing over your genitals... dont worry about it sweetheart, no man worth your body will think your labia are any less than beautiful seriously... I hated mine too, but when you have an SO that literally worships your body, and finds EVERYTHING about you sexy or charming... you will realise how stupid it is to worry about something so silly Link to comment
WhiteForest Posted July 12, 2007 Share Posted July 12, 2007 Good grief E doesn't your guy ever do anything wrong?! Link to comment
EvaGina Posted July 12, 2007 Share Posted July 12, 2007 yes, yes he does (like coming home at 6 am drunk off his face when I expected home by midnight...) BUT, the point is... if a guy loves you, then he will love all of you. You can even get your period heavily halfway through sex and he wont freak out... a-symmetrical labia is not something the OP should leave sleep over Link to comment
tiredofvampires Posted July 12, 2007 Share Posted July 12, 2007 Tod, Thanks for that GREAT video link! I never saw that before, but love it. Awesome. Link to comment
tiredofvampires Posted July 12, 2007 Share Posted July 12, 2007 And your attitude and perks for us women, too! You're a sweetie! Link to comment
Bonzophuebes1 Posted July 12, 2007 Share Posted July 12, 2007 ISNT one side of the body bigger than the other, left arm, leg etc slightly bigger. Well, maybe that goes for the LABIA as well. I have a nut bigger than the other.. seriously.. I never thought about it. Link to comment
aNnAeLiZaBeTh Posted July 12, 2007 Author Share Posted July 12, 2007 yes, bonzo, the left testicle is usually bigger than the right. and you're right, i guess the asymmetrical thing goes for the labia as well. wow, i'm so glad i made this post because now i feel so much better on the topic Link to comment
Bonzophuebes1 Posted July 12, 2007 Share Posted July 12, 2007 Glad to be of service.. If I was not married, i would examine our labia for proper diagnosis.. HAHAHAHAAHAHA Link to comment
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