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  1. Dullaware
    Today, for no reason at all I had a relapse. I've done NC and haven't spoken to her in four months. I don't know where it came from but now I want to see her again.......Has it been long enough? If so how do I go about talking to her? I don't want to be alone anymore....
  2. Dullaware
    I was just wondering, my girlfriend left me, but we've only been dating a month ( posted a thread on this a little while ago ) Would no contact be the way to go? I mean we're good friends and I feel as though doing no contact would just make her feel that we aren't friends or anything to that extent. So is a month to soon for no contact?
  3. Dullaware
    Argh I just don't know what to do. I don't want to the no contact because I see her to much, and I dont want her to feel like im avoiding her, hence making her think I dont like her at all. I want to call her but when I IMed her earlier today asking if it was ok she just said "I guess so...." im just now sure how to go about getting her back.......and I want her back badly
  4. Dullaware
    actually that makes a bit of sense. Somthing that I've been thinking about for awhile though is that I believe that with some women they just like a guy who dosen't care about them ( The younger ones I mean ) like they just want a guy whos going to treat them badly, that a caring guy isnt what they want. Any thoughts?
  5. Dullaware
    just one thing, i'm just wondering if her abruptness to end it, and unwillingness to talk isn't a sign that she dosent like me. That was kind of a big thing that bothered me.
  6. Dullaware
    I think she can get the feelings back. The fact that she hasn't turned you off completely is a good sign, better than nothing =/. Anyways, I think that if you show her that you haven't changed, just improved that it would be for the best. If at all possible try to go on a date ( Or just a friendly meeting as friends ) hopefully she'll agree, and if you feel jealousy coming back it'd be a great chance to show her how you've changed by not acting on it. Show her that you don't really care ( even if ya do ) with any luck she'll see that you've gotten over it and it'll lead to good things
  7. Dullaware
    I think she can get the feelings back. The fact that she hasn't turned you off completely is a good sign, better than nothing =/. Anyways, I think that if you show her that you haven't changed, just improved that it would be for the best. If at all possible try to go on a date ( Or just a friendly meeting as friends ) hopefully she'll agree, and if you feel jealousy coming back it'd be a great chance to show her how you've changed by not acting on it. Show her that you don't really care ( even if ya do ) with any luck she'll see that you've gotten over it and it'll lead to good things
  8. Dullaware
    Well do you still want her after knowing this? I'm not preaching, just want to know how you feel about this girl if you know nothing's gonna come out of it
  9. Dullaware
    The mutual friend has just got done talking to her and she says that she feels she talked to me enough about the relationship. Is there anyone out there who can explain to me why she's just being so quick to shut herself off and not talk to me?
  10. Dullaware
    Just be yourself, if she dosen't accept it then move on. I'm going to have to go through this sometime this week, and i'll be on AIM if you want to talk and get this stuff off your chest. I've found talking about things is always the best way to deal with em. Just one thing, if your trying to make a good impression and want her, try not to get drunk. Just throwing that out there. Blackazilla is my AIM name by the way. Gimme a shout
  11. Dullaware
    This could just be me here, but I think you over looked somthing that can be taken for good. She said that she had changed her hair color several times. That may mean that she's trying to adjust ( Unsuccessfully ) and change herself to cope with a major change ( no longer having a boyfriend ) though I may be wrong.
  12. Dullaware
    Easy way to get over that is to just say it isnt a date! Just say its hanging out, dont let her know its going to be a date or anything like that. Just try to show her that your still that same guy who she wanted to be with
  13. Dullaware
    I think every hurt boyfriend on the NC thing hates time. Because its like getting rid of an addiction, you want it so bad. I just think that keeping your mind on other things is always a good way to go. As for your girl bowski, she seems to not want a commitment now, I say just play it cool while she's in school, just give her the time she needs, when she gets out in the real world she'll see that she needs someone permanent to be with her ( At least I hope so ) and maybe you can finally get her back
  14. Dullaware
    I know what you mean by the smiling. It's the thing I like the most about her. I was just wondering if there was a way you could tell if she was just being friendly, or just really wanted to try somthing again. I'm afraid if I be a friend to her she'll just be content with that, but I dont want to just be her friend, I want to be with her
  15. Dullaware
    I think that stress is playing a large role in this. I also think that she dosen't know how to deal with alot of these feelings. Though I just want to talk to her, and let her know i'm here for her. Friend or other =/
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