Ripcurl513

Well thanks everyone for everything....I finally told her and she feels is like that and wants to try stuff with me but I just dont know how to make any moves or how to start anything...so does anyone have any advice with that? Thanx again to EVERYONE!!!

Ok well I told her how I felt and she says she feels the same way, and like it seems like she wants me to try something but I just don't know how or how to start or anything.....anyone know what I could do?

Ok just one last thing before I make the choice to tell her.....ok me and our friend were joking around yesterday, well we do it all the time, but yesterday we were joking around about like being "lovers" I dont know....our whole group does it, but on the way home with the one I want to be with, shes like you guys gotta stop the way ya'll are talking to eachother....and I was like why.....she said because she is getting jealous, and the way she said it, she meant jealous of someone talking to me like that....so what do you think? Go for it? Or wait?

Thank you all so much....some things have happened over the weekend...we both got wasted friday night and we were talking, the subject came up and i think shes into it.....nothings happened yet, but shes been touching me a lot like every chance she gets so what do you think? She always wants me to sit on her lap and she like rubs my back or the back of my neck, or she plays with my hair...so?

Wellswomyn, Thank you for that advice....tonight is actually the night we always watch movies so I will definatley rent that one! I'm 18 and so is she....a lot of things happened this weekend with us, nothing to far but I think the flirting went far......we are always together so thats a good sign right? Well, since we have been hanging out we have not really talked about it at all, but friday night we were all drinking and well I told her how I felt...she didn't act weird...she actually acted like she was interested, but we haven't talked about it since friday night.....but she always wants to touch me....she always finds a way, like she always wants me to sit on her lap, and she plays with my hair a lot....or if were in the car she puts her hand on my leg and like uses her nails....but nothings been said or has happened....I really have strong feelings for her but I dont know what to do! Your advice really helped me, do you have anymore? Ripcurl

Well...she doesn't have a boyfriend or a girlfriend...shes my best friend, so we hang out all the time...I'm talking every second that I'm not in school...I'm with her, we work together and after work we sneak out together...I mean she takes my car home every night because I don't have my lisense anymore for a couple of weeks, so she takes my car every night and is at my house after school....we're pretty good friends thats why I dont want to say anything....we are fixing to move out together in about 3 weeks, so thats why I just don't know if I should just say it....I might say something today after I get out of school, well if I get enough guts to do it......my main problem is that I dont know if shes bi! I NEED A LOT OF HELP!!!!

Hang in there lilu.....it will get better, just like they are saying, I'm a little younger but I've been through a lot as well....well more than most 17 year olds......I feel your pain and I hope it gets better for you cause I know how it feels....thinking its never gonna end and basically not knowing what to do with yourself....it sucks, be strong and be happy as hard as it sounds....you can do it! SMILE!!!

Ok so basically I'm so confused on what to do....heres the story! I think I have really strong feeling for my best friend. I don't think I love her, but the problem is shes a girl and so am I! I don't know if shes like that or not, shes made comments, but nothing to where I would think shes definalty bi or anything...the most recent comment was last night, we were all drinking and talking about anything...the subject came up about being bi....well actually it was about bi girls...the guys were saying how bi girls are the best, whatever! Well my best friend was like "If I found the right girl I could be bi, but I just haven't found anyone yet!" I'm thinking.."I'M RIGHT HERE"....but I didnt say anything...but I did say that I didnt want to talk about it anymore...so I think she got the vibe..I'm pretty sure she knows anyway...I mean its not like I've actually came out and told her, but things that our friends(the ones that know about me) talk to me about and like things I've said...I'm pretty sure she knows, but I don't know if I should say anything...I really like her and care for her, but I also don't want to freak her out...ya know? Anyone know any advice? Please help me.....I just can't take it anymore, I really want to be with her and I see her EVERYDAY and I go out with her EVERY NIGHT ...and I really want to just be like....look we should be together, but I'm so scard that shes gonna turn me down. I dont want to get turned down! ANYONE with any advice....please help! ](*,)

Has everything been ok? Have your parents changed their minds yet? I haven't heard from you in like a week, so I was just wondering! Well tell me whats up dude! I'll help you out with this, It's a lot easier to talk to someone....believe me I know.....just tell me how you are and I'll talk to you later!

ok...thank you so much niet! I really don't know what to do about all this! I really want to know if maybe she has intrest in me at all...thank you for your advice and if you have anymore...I'll take the help!

Someone please help me...I really need some advice with this!!! Its been hard to deal with this and not know what to do about it! I still haven't said anything to her about it, but I think shes getting the vibe, but I still don't know how she feels about it or me? Please...anyone who can help it would be great! If you could just tell me like what I should look for or something if she likes me like that or not!?

Is it boot camp? I had to go to boot camp, but it was just a 12 hour camp...it was hard though! So is she just gonna come and ya'll are gonna see what happens...or what? When are you suppose to be at camp? Man, its so crazy cause this sounds excally like the same situation I used to be in! Well hope your doing ok.... \ Keep Smiling \

You should tell her, expecially if you love her cause she won't be able to trust you if she ever finds out and eventhough your SURE....what if her friend brings it up when shes drunk again....what if she just did it for your girlfriend to see how much she can trust you....cause us girls do, do that! So you should definatly tell her, it would just be better!

Thats good that you finally asked her....I was just reading all the posts and was gonna tell you to call her as soon as possible cuz she probably needed information and stuff since prom is close....but you had already called...well good luck with her and have fun at prom! I know I will!

I know how you feel, my parents used to hit me a lot too 0X ...but they don't anymore and I don't recomend you do what I did...so I'm not gonna mention it. But about your girlfriend, I really don't know what you could do, I mean you could always sneak her in every night....which would be a hassel probably...or you could sneak out or something...thats really unfair that they won't let you see her...expecally when she already bought her tickets.....let me know what your thinking about doing....? When is she coming?