sexynadaley

wow thank you so much for the great advice! I have kept it a secret for many months now and it is eating away at our relationship... i have little respect for her and she has even mentioned on several occasions that i am short with her. I think i am going to leave it until i am sure and ready...and definitely not mention it to her friend. thankyou again its been great getting another persons perspective. and knowing im not on my own where * * * *ed up parents are concerned xxx

My partner said I should either confront my mam or just forget about it but both of these seem impossible to me. I think I may get the ins and outs of it from one of my mothers close friends (who I am also close with) and try and get another perspective from someone who knows. However I am aware that if I tell my mams friend I know then I will have to confront my mam as its not fair for my mams friend to be in between. I just want all of this to finish!

All my views have already been said by other people but I think you are wrong to think that she doesnt love you because she wont go to the doctor. I personally suffer from cystitis a few times throughout the year and that makes sex a big no no. It extremely annoying as me and my partner are highly sexed. So we get through it by a lot of self love (but with eachother) and a lot of 'dry-humping' which is a bit strange unless you are very comfortable with your partner but just invloves rubbing yourself up against eachother in the usual sexual positions and getting very ot and heavy with touching and kissing but nothing underneath the panties. Hope evrything goes okay with you x

A few years ago I saw text messages on my mams phone to this guy called ken. They were saying 'I love you', there was about 3 of them all saying basically the same. I confronted my mam about it and she said they were both friends and ken was going through a tough time at the moment (hense the i love yous). Yet a few months ago I looked at her phone again and there was filthy text messages...and I mean dirt - 'I cant wait to **** you'... I really dont know what to do! My dad works away so I dont see him to often so I rarely get the chance to speak to him in person and every time I do I back out of telling him. I know it will break his heart and I dont want either of my parents thinking badly of me. If I tell my dad then my mam will blame me for causing so much trouble (I know it is actually her but the guilt is still there) and if I dont and my dad finds out in another way and he knows that I knew then he will never forgive me for not telling him! Please help.

I (probably) like most people pick my nose and hunch over when no one is around. I at all times (when people are watching me) have my shoulders back, my tummy breathed in and a half smile on my face. At home in the privacy of my own bedroom have been known to have red spotches on my face where I have picked at 'under the skin' pimples and my hair in a scrunchie right at the top of my head! Its not pretty I know but I suppose it is 'the real me'. I don't know who I prefer - 'the real me' with red splotches, a clear nose, fat splurging out. or the me in public with my head held high, supposedly clear skin and perfect hair. I suppose I like the a bit of each.

I personally have to be physically attracted to a guy first - that doesnt mean he has to be a brad pitt lookalike just cant look like a gremlin. I am regarded as quite cynical so I think I'd need a guy to understand that and find it funny. He has to make me laugh and I hate awkward silences - I think one of the key things in a good relationship is being able to shut the hell up and not feel awkward.