Jayme

Hey, You ok? Hmm, I think maybe you should give her more time to think about what is she going through. And she knows that you're very supportive and she is definitely grateful for that. The troubling part is that she said that this happened with a couple of partners? What I'm thinking is, did it cause them to break up though? She also could be afraid of men, she had some bad experiences with them when she was 17. So that could be another reason for her not wanting to share what is going on in her mind, as she could not fully trust them. I guess you'lll have to show her that she could absolutely trust you, before she can really share her problems with you. It gonna be hard, and I do not know how can you do it. But by being there for her when she needs it, is a great step that you have taken. Keep going at it. =) Do keep me updated yah? If you want to, you can always PM me if you need someone to talk to. Cheers peep.

Hmmm, you sure you ready to talk to her without any hard feelings about the break up? If you do have any hard feelings about it, I would suggest that you guys cool it first before having a close friendship. If not you might lose her as a friend as well. Hmm,just a thought that I have. After looking at so many forums msges. Alot of us had trouble talking to our ex's after a break up. =)

Both of you have probably cooled down after the break up. I assumed your meaning of "left her alone" is not trying to ask her to patch up and stuff? Girls kinda hate that I think, guys "stalking" them non-stop asking them to give them another chance and stuff. thereforeeee, when you stopped that, she probably realises that she could start talking to you again without being bombarded with "I really really need you", "can't live without you", "pls give me a chance" msges. Hmm, I hope this helps. Of course this is what I think. Maybe you should try asking her? keke, just kidding. =)

I have been thur the same sh*t too. She's trying to cling on to you. Making use of you, but deep down inside, she just wants to go ahead and have fun. And has no plans to settle down at all. And allow me to say this. She's not the only person in the world. As you said, there are other girls interested in you. Get your life back on track, and who knows? Someone out there might offer you things that you could have never imagined. Trust me on that. =) True love is such that, sacrifices are made by 2 party and not only one. And when both parties give love unconditionally. cheers mate. SmileZ always.

Its my first post. =_) But anyway, I would say, don't believe what she tells you. First things first, she has already made a choice to break up with you for another guy. She has already made a CHOICE of who she wants to be with. But I can tell you that she is very confused. Because somehow although she made a choice. She doesn't want to lose you either, thereforeeee, trying to cling on to both guys at the same time. Women are sometime selfish. They wish for the guys to be good to them, treat them as if they were their gf's. Somehow they enjoy enjoy being cared, loved for. She knows thats you treat her well, and still has feelings for her, thereforeeee she's reluctant to lose you. Get what I mean? =) Well, at the end of the day, the choice is yours to make. Whether you choose to believe her and wait for her, to patch back your relation or to move on with life. Which I suggest the latter. Hope this helps.