I had been seeing this guy, Matt, for almost 8 months. It isn't long, but long enough to know that he is the one I want to be with forever. Even the odd events that caused our meeting makes it seem as though we were meant for each other.
I was talking to a not-friend of mine online and I told her to bother one of my annoying (at the time) ex-b/fs. She did and then he (Pip) told her to bother Matt because Matt had warned Pip. (Pip asked Matt to warn him - Pip is weird - but I love him ^-^ hehe) Pip knew Matt cause they were both trombone players in the high school band, though Matt had graduated that year and Pip and I were just entering the 9th grade.
Anyway, so the not-friend bothered Matt and they ended up going out on a date cause my not-friend is weird and begged, et cetera. Well, they got back from the date and the not-friend told me to talk to Matt online cause he was weird and I was weird and we would like each other. So I did. Matt and I had everything in common. We both had such similar interests.
So I see it that it was my fault that Matt and I met in the first place, if you trace it back to when I told my not-friend to bother Pip.
Anyway, now for why Matt left me.
He first said it was because I was psycotic. Finally, last week he told me the real reason. He said it was because we could never have a non-just-physical relationship. I know we could because we have so many things in common, he just doesn't want to accept that.
I know he is scared. He blocked me online and says he doesn't want to talk to me because he will start to like me again and then forgive me and take me back.
I am so confused on how to get him to talk to me again (at least) or to take me back. I know I can make it work out if he gives me another chance (which I already asked for). I just need to know how to get him to give me that chance without seeming "psycotic" to him.