KyokuKazeno

Wow, that was the most hard to understand question I have ever read in my entire life... heh heh - all I can say is I am not a guy so i dont know if I would look at myself and be like "hmm i wish it were bigger" I dont think I would... as long as I knew how to use it... o.o

*stopped talking to him a week ago* Yea.. I blocked him myself so that I wouldn't talk to him.. I am smart enough and know Matt enough not to egg him on.. or whateva its called...

Alright - all those things that you are doing are great and wonderful, but if you are already with her, as in - "going out with her" and what-have-ya, dont be afraid of her losing interest or anything... Don't be unconfident. Thats a mistake I made myself... I regret it so much now. Just be confident and love her and yourself, believe her if she says she loves you, etc... I am sure all will be OK.

40 minutes would be a grace period, I am thinking. If he doesn't call at all, then that is a flake off.. or whatever you called it. In other words *resists the urge to start singing "Fly Me To The Moon"* he decided not to call because either he forgot, got too busy, is mean, et cetera. If he does call and is just late calling, I am sure he will have a valid explanation if he is a nice and good guy.

I had been seeing this guy, Matt, for almost 8 months. It isn't long, but long enough to know that he is the one I want to be with forever. Even the odd events that caused our meeting makes it seem as though we were meant for each other. I was talking to a not-friend of mine online and I told her to bother one of my annoying (at the time) ex-b/fs. She did and then he (Pip) told her to bother Matt because Matt had warned Pip. (Pip asked Matt to warn him - Pip is weird - but I love him ^-^ hehe) Pip knew Matt cause they were both trombone players in the high school band, though Matt had graduated that year and Pip and I were just entering the 9th grade. Anyway, so the not-friend bothered Matt and they ended up going out on a date cause my not-friend is weird and begged, et cetera. Well, they got back from the date and the not-friend told me to talk to Matt online cause he was weird and I was weird and we would like each other. So I did. Matt and I had everything in common. We both had such similar interests. So I see it that it was my fault that Matt and I met in the first place, if you trace it back to when I told my not-friend to bother Pip. Anyway, now for why Matt left me. He first said it was because I was psycotic. Finally, last week he told me the real reason. He said it was because we could never have a non-just-physical relationship. I know we could because we have so many things in common, he just doesn't want to accept that. I know he is scared. He blocked me online and says he doesn't want to talk to me because he will start to like me again and then forgive me and take me back. I am so confused on how to get him to talk to me again (at least) or to take me back. I know I can make it work out if he gives me another chance (which I already asked for). I just need to know how to get him to give me that chance without seeming "psycotic" to him.

Erngh... My boyfriend, the one I thought was the love of my life broke up with me just two weeks ago. I have been doing nothing but cry since, so I can at least say I almost know how you feel. I can also say that I think it is safe for you to talk to your ex-girlfriend. My ex pretty much hates me with a terrible wicked passion... I wanted to still be friends, but he says I am psycotic and if we were friends he would start to like me again and he doesn't want that. I am sure if you talk to her, she will come around. It sounds like y'all had a great relationship before. So... I guess we are almost in the same boat. *takes the oars of the boat for a while so he can rest* I'll be hoping and praying for you.