harley76man

Greeting all, Here's my dilemma, Im 45 divorced male and have 2 great kids. sounds good so far right? well its not, all I see is happy people w/there mates. Dinners alone, lunches, breakfasts. always alone never anyone to talk to other than male co-workers. I took a job requiring 90% international travel because being close to my kids w/out living w/them made me crazy. I couldn't do it. I would not sleep, not eat, vomit everynight out of a sound sleep.ect... you get the picture im sure. I have too keep this job because the $$$$.$$ is awesome and it allows me to make sure my kids are taken care of FINANCIALLY. The only thing is I have no life other than work? no dates,no g/f ect... and you can see how being with all the travel i do... when i do get home all i want to do is be w/my kids. I fantisize about a women who has no strings, and can see the world w/me. Then i wake up in Asia alone...see what i mean I feel dammed if I do and dammed if I dont. I dont mind being alone but loney sux!!! Thanks, Bill

Just keep saying "i can quit any time i want". Dont worry unless you start getting the shakes w/out being online. If you steal from loved ones so you can stay home and be here...time to quit... LOL i find it alot of fun myself... im alone over in Asia so i have nothing but time.,,.LOL i think you'll be seeing alot of me in here too,,,,, but i can quit anytime i want thats the difference.. Bill

This where you decied of your his dad or his buddy. Trying to balnce in the middle means your not his dad or his buddy! Educate him in how to "not get a girl pregnant. Make sure there's a large bowl filled w/condoms available. 2 reasons: 1 he may be embarrased to go by them and 2 if there are alot no one will notice if a few are missing. make sure he knows about STD'd and how your too young to be a grandad... you sound like a caring and nurturing father, you will do the right thing... just the fact that he can talk to you about such private thing is great.. good luck! Bill

Go to the doctor...both get scipt for cipiroflaxin 500mg (cipro)use conoms for a week and ull be good to go! good luck yuuukk!! Bill

Lets see, do you not have orgasms w/bf...or how about manual masterbation? thats the diff... show him how you masterbate..he will be totally turned on and you can direct him in what makes you feel good.. If you cant get yourself off, i would sugest a visit to some female medical sites on the web. read up...but relax you'll get there. good luck Bill

The best "lines" arent lines when you say them. They may get a smile,or start a conversation. Then its up to you to, in my experience make them laugh! I know some real bombers too: God must be very angry...She says why cause he's missing an angel! or you must have a cow..she says why? cause milk does the body good! or say Jeez i seem to have lost my phone number...can i have yours? These are all losers and ive seen guys try them..please unless shes 11 years old you will surely get the eye roll. Be confident, direct and look her in the eyes when you speak,,,thats the only pick up information i could share. Make them laugh.. Bill