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My ex finally contacted me by e-mail after about two weeks of not speaking to each other after our break up. We're not mad at each other for anything it is just awkward. She asked me what ever happened to still calling her all the time? We are going back to college in about three weekes now and iam going to see her every day. She asked me in her e-mail "you're going to party with me on the first night right?" She doesn't have many if any girlfriends at school. All her friends down there are guys. Guys that she met through me. So all her friends down there were my friends before her. So i kind of have the upper hand in the so called friendship when we go back to school. It took me for ever to get over her and iam still not there. I don't really want to have to go through that again but i probably would because i miss her so much. Iam wondering if it would be wise to party with her on the first night. Or would i just be let down? Does she really want to hang out with me or hang out with me because if i cut her off she'll probably be friendless at school? Advise much appreciated. Thanks for reading.

Well it has been a lonely four weeks since i broke up with the best girlfriend i have ever had. She broke up with me because we live in different cities, an hour and a half away, and she says we never get to see each other anymore. We will be going back to college together in about four weeks. Last night i had a great dream about her we were sitting in a park and we weren't going out in my dream either. But we were talking on this bench and i was sitting next to her and she was rubbing her hands through my hair. I remember in the dream that it felt so good and it relaxed me knowing that there was still something between us. But when i woke i realized it was a dream and i felt like shit. She is always on my mind when i go to bed and when i get up in the morning. How long will it take to get over this girl? Lately she has been very distant with me she hasn't written any e-mails or even called. It really kills me because she said she still has strong feelings for me and wants to talk to me everyday. I wonder if she had found someone else and is spending all her extra time with them. I picture her doing the same little things we did in our relationship, for example, when we didn't see each other for a while the first thing she would do is give me a big hug while sucking on my ear lobe. I picture her doing that to another guy and it's like a punch in the gut. Anyways that has been on my mind lately and i can't turn it off. Advise much appreciated. Thanks

Here is my current problem. I broke up with my girlfriend (now ex,) about two weeks ago. Iam still having troubles getting over her. I care about her so much and i feel i have been betrayed. I would do anything for this girl. We were going out for around eight months, which in during that time i had the best girlfriend ever in my life. We never fought and we got along great. We are both on summer vacation right now from the same college. She couldn't stand the long distance part of our relationship anymore. So with five weeks left before we get to see each other every day she breaks up with me. We ended our relationship on a good note, no fight or anything, just the fact that she couldn't handle not seeing me anymore so she decided to break it off. She is comeing to visit a family member of hers which lives in my town in a couple of weeks. she asked if i wanted to get together and hang out during that time. We e-mail each other at least every other day which is fine with me but it is hard reading her letters because she tells me how awesome her summer is going and she is telling me she is partying every other day almost and telling me all these great things she is doing. It is extremely hard for me to read these e-mail because i feel she doesn't care for me anymore and could really care less if we talked. But anyways she is coming up in a couple of weekends and i was wondering if i should do something with her or just wait until school is back in session and see her then. I know it would be really hard for me to see her after our break right now because all i want in life is to be back with her. Should i see her now or wait? Comment much appreciated. Thanks for listening.

Here is my current problem- My wonderful girlfriend broke up with me last week because she doesn't have time to see me when she is working two jobs. We are going to be going back to college together in a month and a half and we will see each other every day. I thought we had a great relationship and she broke my heart with a month and a half left of summer until we see each other every day. She swears there is no one else. I asked her if i should wait for her until school starts again. Se told me to do what makes me happy. She tells me she really likes me alot still and she still wants to talk everyday and still hang out, but just doesn't want the committed part. She also says that if we like each other as much as we say we do she believes we will be together. Is this girl just playing with me? advise much appreciated. Thanks

Iam 19 and on summer vacation from college right now. I had a great girl that means so much to me that i met at college around christmas and started dating during school. Summer came along and we were having a great long distance relationship. Seeing each other at least once a week and talking to her on the phone every day. Then recently she got a new job and now she has two. Then she calls me and says she cant handle having a boyfriend and working two jobs because we don't talk as much and we wont get to see each other that much. She says iam the only guy in her life and there is no one else and she still likes me and cares about me. She wants to be friends for now and she doesn't know what will happen back at school. We've made it through more than half the summer, and with a month and a half left of summer until we get to see each other every day at school she decides to break up. I thought we had a great relationship and nothing could come between us especially two JOBS! We never fought once in our relationship and i thought she was the one for me. Anyways i asked her if i should wait and see what happens with us or move on. She said to do what i want to do. We talk almost every day and we left every thing on good terms when we decided to split up. -Thats all, comments much appreciated.

Me and my ex girlfriend have been dating since christmas of last year. Our relationship is all that i expected and then some. I cared so much for her and would do anything for her. We went to the same college together last year, which is where we met and started going out around christmas. School got over and we decided to try a long distance relationship for the summer. We live about an hour and a half from each other and we have made it through half the summer and then some. She is working at one job and she gets another around our break up. I thoguht our relationship was like any othe typical relationship. With a month and a half left of school she calls me out of the blue and says she is confused and really stressed out with her two jobs and wants to be friends because she can never see me anymore. She says she never sees me anymore but really cares for me and swears there is no other man in her life right now except for me and she tells me how much iam better than any other boyfriend she has. We talk every day and i tell her how i feel and that i want to be with her. I thought we were closer than that to have a couple jobs come between us. School starts in a month and a half and i'll see her everyday. What do i do. Comments much appreciated on this topic. Thanks