yalkshire

she's not worth it if she after 'cooling' down already has a new boyfriend! simple as that.

there are several ways, I've never been rejected, that's my luck anyway here's what I think : * If she rejects tell something stupid to lead the attention away *say that you had tickets for some great concert or alike and you will go with some other lucky girl. If she wants to go with u then anyway, reject HER! *Just say "thanks" and walk away *Let your friend say "okay she rejected you, you've won the bet" => you should c her face then . I'm running out of ways hope that helped! greetz yalkshire

hey, I was surfing around the net and came upon this site! appearantely it's not a stand-alone case, it happened to me too. I'm only 18yearz old but three days before we were going to celebrate our second together anniversary she told me almost exactly the same. That hurts a lot! She loves me but isn't in love anymore. According to what I could c on her face she only wanted to be free more, and now that she is, she likes it too much to come back to me again. She wants 2 b friends = bullshit. That's never gonna happen. 99% of the 'friendships' go right to hell because there's one of the two that still loves the other too damn much. I wouldn't make too much worries about her, go out, you're 26 in gods name!! forget about her, and build up a life which is worthy to live in!! meet some new people and forget about all yer worries. I tried it, and it worked good. I even have met someone new now. she's great! I never would have met her otherwise. just drive and carefully don't drink like I did . It's a painfull happening when you go separate but leaving it behind might b the best thing. What you are doing now is just dancing to what she sais. It might not b her intention but it's happening. What I do question myself if some guys did the same? I only hear it of women in this topic.. Feelings don't change suddenly except if they're simply made by society and are not strong enough to hold standing. and I think that's what happened 2 me so those years are a waste of time for me. It might sound cruel but she's not worth it so it's her loss, she's too stupid to c that. crying is not a solution. You MUST have grieve, you may cry but let it be a process to get on with your life or to build up a new & better one but don't let it be a life-style. greetz & many strength! Yalkshire