Jason2201

I think it is possible for someone to change completely. You've been with this girl for three years and the fact that your still together tells me you love each other. Sounds to me like she doesn't realize how much you really mean to her or (hopefully not) you mean less than you thought. My girlfriend felt the same way about me as you do about her. She was so miserable because I wasn't ready to change, or at least I didn't think so. So she couldn't take it anymore and we broke up. About a week later I realized what I had lost and that nothing, not my friends, not my family, nothing could help my thoughts go away. I realized that I lost the most important thing in my life, I lost my future. Well, sadly Its been 3 weeks and I haven't got her back quite yet. We are however closer than we've ever been and things are looking very good. I'm now thinking about getting her a ring. Its hard but its true: If you love something set it free, if it comes back its meant to be. Just think about this maybe as a last resort, I honestly don't know if I could have done this to her. I hope things work out for you. Only time will tell. Good Luck, Take Care

I agree. If you're ready for sex then you better be ready for the responsibility. Hopefully you love this guy because I believe that sex is an act of love not a recreational activity. I'm just saying, THINK, and be responsible. You ask could this be a problem? Well, If you get pregnant is that a problem? Are you ready for that responsibility?

First of all birth control can mees with your body. I remember when my ex first started taking the pill, It messed her up for a while. Also if you take the pill and decide you wan to start a family or such it can take 2 years to get completely out of your system. Though if your a long ways from kids then go ahead. I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend for two years, and maybe we were lucky but she never got pregnant. Although I pulled out every single time, which let me warn you, the more you love this person the harder it is to pull out. I personally would wait, you said this is a new b/f, I don't believe people should sleep together unless they're in love. Even then the bible says you should be married. But Hey, Its your life, your decision, its not always easy to do whats right, believe me, I know! Good Luck

I'll be OK

I'm Done Talking About it. "You've got to trust your instincts and let go of regrets, you've got to bet on yourself now, cause thats your best bet.

Hey, Alright, this is the deal. I met this girl my senior year in High School. We hit it off and we started college together. We were together for 2 1/2 years and we lived together for two. She broke up with me about a month ago because she had changed and I didn't think I was ready to change. So we broke up and two days later I realized that I was ready to change, that she was the one and that I want to marry this girl. I had moved accross the hall of our apartment complex the day we broke up. Anyways the day after I realized all this I woke up and was excited because I thought I knew where my life was headed. About 30 minutes after I was up I heard her door close, I knew she was probably going to work so I looked out the window to get a glimpse, and I saw something that hurt me more than anything ever has. I saw her walking hand-in-hand with some guy, they walked to her car, she sat down, he leaned in and kissed her, and she went to work. I died in that moment. Now I see her all the time and we are spending some time together. She still tells me she loves me and misses me, but she's with this other guy. I'm so CONFUSED. I can't stop thinking about her and when he's not around she looks to hang out with me. We say were best friends but I want to be more than a friend. Everytime I start to get over her she calls me at 3am or says something to give me hope. I don't know what to do. I know time will tell, but this really sucks. She tells me now that I have become everything she's always wanted. Then why is it so hard to get rid of this guy and give it a chance? Desperatly Needing advice. Jason